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  • Katie Marie
    19 years ago

    Should I beat the crap out of this boy at my school?

    Here's a little information on why I'd even think about hurting someone... *hehe*

    I haven't liked him since the 2nd grade and vise versa. I've attempted at being 'nice' to him several times because my ex boyfriend was his best friend but it didn't work out. Anyways he's mean to me, so therefore I'm mean back, is that so wrong? Anyways he came on the net last night and was like 'You've been talking shit about me!' For one ofcourse I have but I haven't said anything behind his back I wouldn't say or well haven't said to his face. And I've been having alot of other problems in my life and I guess it feels good to take some anger out on him.

    So should I beat the heck out of him... or what?

  • Ironic Allure
    19 years ago

    No, you really shouldn't. Violence rarely solves anything, if at all.

    The fact that you're having difficulties at home is no excuse to take your anger out on somebody who has played no role in the pain AT HOME.

    Those problems need to be sorted out seperately, even if the pain does contribute to your retalliation when this boy is mean to you.

    The reason he's being mean to you is probably because he enjoys your reaction. As difficult as it is, try not to show any emotion, even if you're brimming with it.

    I may be wrong, but I don't think violence would solve it, just provoke more.

    -Laura.

  • Bret Higgins
    19 years ago

    If you hit him, the gloves come off and he's free to hit you right back. Don't expect leniancy because you're girl if you start something.

    But then do what you gotta do. Just be aware of the consequences before you do so. You never know it might help your relationship the fella.

    Bert

  • Katie Marie
    19 years ago

    I'd hope he'd hit me back... I'm not normally violent towards other people but I'd expect him to atleast push me.

  • Ironic Allure
    19 years ago

    you WANT him to hurt you?

    -Laura.

  • August
    19 years ago

    If you're going to hit him, end it before it begins. Don't take your time getting hit, too; just go for the throat, kidneys, balls (i consider them fair play), nose, solar plexus, etc.