i need some ones help!!!!!!!

  • Broken Hearted Immortal
    20 years ago

    my sister is 12 years old and i wanna kno how i can help her since she has had sex many times and wit many different guyz. how can i talk her outta becoming a slut?

  • Kaitlin Kristina
    20 years ago

    You need to make sure she knows the risks involved and have an honest and mature conversation with her about WHY she would want to do this. Its most likely for attention, affection, popularity, or peer preassure, and those are ALL the wrong reasons. Work through it emotionally with her, if she understands the risks and knows that her reasons for doing it are wrong and she still wants to do it its her business, but if she is getting herself into unsafe situations you need to tell your parents what shes doing.

  • Bret Higgins
    20 years ago

    becoming?

    I don't think there is much you can do except be an example of how a teenager should behave.

    Bert

  • Broken Hearted Immortal
    20 years ago

    well yea i have talked to her and i told her all the risks shes taking but i think she is only having sex to get back at her mom cuz her mom has three other kids (we have the same dad not mom) and she is told to do everything. she even told me she thought that she was pregnat and i am scared for my little sister. i really am.

  • Kaitlin Kristina
    20 years ago

    Tell her parents. At 12 they are supposed to stop you from doing stupid things.

    These decisions will affect the rest of her life, and she may be pissed off at you NOW for telling, but in 20 years when she has a kid and an STD she will wish that you had stopped her.

  • Broken Hearted Immortal
    20 years ago

    dont you think i tried our dad knos but he dont care hes got a 23 year old whore at home he dont care about us

  • silentscream
    20 years ago

    make sure she realizes what life would be like with a baby
    wake up at 1:30 everymorning
    and b4 you have you get sick
    no privacy ever!
    talk to her an dtell her how you feel

  • Broken Hearted Immortal
    20 years ago

    i have so many times and she just dont listen to me and i hate her for being the way she is sleeping around she needs someone else to talk to

  • Bret Higgins
    20 years ago

    If she is sleeping with older guys, report it to the police. Statutory rape will stigmatise everything.

  • Kaitlin Kristina
    20 years ago

    Wow. Good point.

    Have you talked to her mom?? Would she care?

  • silentscream
    20 years ago

    i would talk to her
    i know how it feels
    to be like her
    after awhile it gets hard to say no
    yeah
    i know how it feels to walk into a classroom
    and have 5 guys ask you for "something"
    i know how it feels to be pulled in the bathroom
    i also know how it feels to have fun
    then have the rep
    and then when you find the "one"
    you aint got nothing to give him

    tell her

    her heart is like an orange
    every time she is w/ a guy she gives a piece of it away
    ask her how much she will have for her true love

    caris

  • silentscream
    20 years ago

    and ask her how she would feel if it was her daughter doin this

  • Broken Hearted Immortal
    20 years ago

    i have told her mom before but she didnt listen to me she never does she hates me and no its not older guyz its guyz her age