Penalty box those for, those against

  • silvershoes
    13 years ago

    Ummm I didn't trash her post, you're being pretty dramatic.

    If debbylyn doesn't know what I meant and would like me to explain, I will gladly.

    "and the funny thing is, she's right...you guys are mods, make a decision and stop looking for popularity, it's not working for you one bit"

    Is that what she meant? All I got was she thinks the thread is ridiculous, and that could mean anything. Ambiguous.

    I'm in hysterics over how you follow me around Bob and try to defame my posts. Literally cracking up.

  • debbylyn
    13 years ago

    Bob is actually a traveling stand up comic...I met him once...didn't you know...

    ...ambiguity is good...keeps everyone guessing :)

  • silvershoes
    13 years ago

    Is he? I'd believe it :)

    Your post definitely got me guessing... but I would like to know what you meant because I'm interested in your opinion. It's alright if you don't want to explain.

  • Nicko
    13 years ago

    Hi Debbylyn, I started this thread. Why do you consider it absolutely ridiculous?

  • Nicko
    13 years ago

    My question was for Debbylyn and please rest assured im not stirring the pot, I made my intentions quite clear if you read all of my posts, but feel free to keep guessing.. lol

  • Sherry Lynn
    13 years ago

    Nicko, play nice please....

  • sibyllene
    13 years ago

    ^Haha! Entertainment for the poor sidelined folks?

    Suggestion has been noted by 1/7th of the mod team ; )

  • silvershoes
    13 years ago

    2/7th noted :) And I vote heck yes.

  • Michael D Nalley
    13 years ago

    Time for another boring story from uncle Mikie ...When I was in second grade I did not do my homework, and they put me in the penalty box with Patty Smith. While the rest of the kids had to run and play to make their heart beat faster, all I had to do was look into the baby blues of my puppy love

    Years latter someone wanted to fight me . When he ask me if I thought I was bad. I told him sometimes I don't do my homework. While he was laughing I walked away

  • AJ
    13 years ago

    Make that 3/7ths!

  • Jad
    13 years ago

    I'm not on the mod team but I vote yes! XD

  • debbylyn
    13 years ago

    "Hi Debbylyn, I started this thread. Why do you consider it absolutely ridiculous?"

    ^I don't think you are ridiculous for starting the thread...just the fact that there is the need for a "penalty box"to begin with...like a child being put in a corner for misbehaving...and who determines what is offensive?...and who is the guilty?

    You know in N.Korea Kim Jong-il has a passion for champagne and Disney movies...while the people are forbidden to even see a movie or have the internet...fair? In the US we have the first amendment to protect our freedom of speech, and though some may take liberties testing the boundaries...the Supreme Court recently upheld that wacko Christian group's protests at our soldiers funerals...This a site that is for poetry and expression...as it takes two to argue...if someone bothers...just ignore...which is what I do daily!

    So as to the penalty box...I say no...

  • Michael D Nalley
    13 years ago

    Jad I am going to tell Nana on you

  • Sunshine
    13 years ago

    Hahahhahaha but you didn't tell me, HHMmmm well Jad, we need to talk.

    (lol)

  • sibyllene
    13 years ago

    "Time for another boring story from uncle Mikie ...When I was in second grade I did not do my homework, and they put me in the penalty box with Patty Smith. While the rest of the kids had to run and play to make their heart beat faster, all I had to do was look into the baby blues of my puppy love"

    Awwww... So did you and one of your boxmates fall in love over those three days? Is that what you're trying to tell us, Mike? That's the analogy I saw. ; )

  • Michael D Nalley
    13 years ago

    See what you did Sherry people are starting to talk
    Is Jad in trouble?
    Come back sunshine it was a meaningless affair

  • silvershoes
    13 years ago

    I see where you're coming from debbylyn, and I appreciate that you are voicing your opinion. I however do not relate PnQ to the United States government and think they should be handled differently. We don't have a President. There is a site owner that doesn't come around anymore and so moderators try to keep PnQ a safe and clean place to the best of their abilities without the site owner's assistance.
    Yes you can ignore things you don't like on the boards, that is one strategy... but when does ignoring become avoiding? Why would most people want to step onto the main boards when there is constant feuding? What appeal does that have to new members who are looking to be part of a -poetry- site? Discussions are awesome, but berating and disrespect aren't. Moderators are clearly here to moderate based on the title.

    We can suspend members when they cause problems and won't stop when we ask them to, or we can give them a time out. In your every day lives, you're all free to do and say what you want... take advantage of your freedoms of speech as upheld by our constitution. In here (on PnQ), like in most organized social groups, you will not be tolerated if you're incessantly disrespectful.

  • Michael D Nalley
    13 years ago

    My ex brother in law has a bumper sticker saying something to the effect that women are like telephones You push the wrong button and you get disconnected My ex wife use to call 911 when she did not like what I said to her. After talking with her the officer explained that an argument is not considered a 911 emergency until someone feels threatened. It does not seem fair that a moderator would invite a member to defend themselves and then retroactively suspend an account because they are still upset even though the member complied with the specific request to clean up the language.

  • Jad
    13 years ago

    DO you people have any idea WHAT Nana did to me! I'm lucky to still be breathing. She nearly killed me!

    I vote NNOOOO!!!! Bad idea!!!

  • silvershoes
    13 years ago

    No to dancing nudists?

  • Jad
    13 years ago

    Yes, I should have never ever said yes to that.

    pssss, Did I say that right Nana? XD

  • Ingrid
    13 years ago

    Say someone is very timid and meek, and someone continues to harass them, finally they take it no more and fight back....Great...

    ^^^
    Lol, this is me and how I've changed in the past four years. I no longer let anyone step all over me and if they can't handle that, than that is too bad.

    This is what I teach my clients too, a big part of why they are obese is because they eat away their frustration..and their frustration comes from not standing up for whom they are and what they want.

  • Ingrid
    13 years ago

    It is not really up to you to decide whether or not a post is irrelevant or not, Hellon. You are a member and therefore have no seniority over any of us.

    I concurred with Bob about the fact that it is good to speak your mind and become less timid. I added some useful information from my daily life, because I feel that I am here to share from myself and feel that is way, way more important than sticking to a rule, that was abolished a long time ago already, just like the one about bumping threads, by the way;)

  • Kevin
    13 years ago

    I stand by my initial statement. The penalty box is all well and good, but only once it is written into the officialy rules. Til then, it's a mod project without any boundaries.

  • Sunshine
    13 years ago

    Welll i am sorry if this is irrelevant too sherry but, can't help myself, this is dignity we are talking about :

    TOO LATE AUSTIN!!! -_-
    Go watch nude mods and penalized ppl. don't care..but don't knock my door, I will ask mom to tell you am not THERE -_-

    and oh MIKE MIKE, don't support him.. Huh..huuh..

    >your rating now is 5 LOL few more votes and you will be at the top rated members LOL..!!

  • Michael D Nalley
    13 years ago

    I can't ever hold a candle to sunshine though...I love your guts

  • Jad
    13 years ago

    "Baby come back,
    You can blame it all on me"

    Let me in!!!!! *stands outside door with flowers and a stack of poems*

    P.S. I'm sorry for whatever inconvience this may cause to this thread but I will be forgiven.

  • Narphangu
    13 years ago

    Sunshine ... hehe. :D
    Voting no for penalty box. Little bit surprised we actually get a vote. Uh... do we get a vote?

  • Kevin
    13 years ago

    NO, we don't get a vote.

    This is fake democracy. Let the proles think they have a voice and just make decisions anyway..

    : )

  • sibyllene
    13 years ago

    Also, it is not a change in the actual rules; it's another method for dealing with the breaking of the rules (which I believe has generally been left to the mods' discretion?). In this case, it's to be used as a less-severe alternative to permanent suspension.

  • Sunshine
    13 years ago

    Lol Mike..

    and HMM -_-fine, forgiven.

    hey Narphi :D <3

    --
    ya and good thread (lol)

  • Noir
    13 years ago

    Let me just say that I've never recieved any emails from any of the mods, nor was I given any indication as to why I was placed in the penalty box.

    I actually don't care, this is the internet, which is supposed to facilitate freedom of speech, but right now, all I see is people treating others like children.

    So I actually am against the penalty box, because not only does it insult the members who actually have the courage to actually post. But it brings into question whether to actually post in the main boards.

  • Sunshine
    13 years ago

    Shame I didnt say my opinion yet, sorry;

    I am against it too, when it comes to penalizing people in for posts in the main boards,

    the only cases i would be with, is if someone
    swore at someone else..or humiliated someone publicly other than that, i really think penalizing people should be only for other stuff...not things related to posts, because it will scare people from being honest enough.

    i may be wrong, but it's my opinion.

  • Sunshine
    13 years ago

    Do they lose their ratings ? like Mike ?

  • Michael D Nalley
    13 years ago

    Can I dedicate this to PnQ Theology members and mods

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2KTFoMJi3uE

    There was more than one person suspended. You fell on the constant arguing and pushing it on.

    "Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you." James 4:7 Speak up to the devil in the name of Jesus. "Greater is he that is in you, than he that is in the world." Jesus said, "I am with you [always]."

    In spite of the rumors Sherry and I shared a lot of B.S. Bible Stories

  • sibyllene
    13 years ago

    Thread's at 100, folks!