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One word

CLITORIS

Find out where it is - teach him how to use it!

Yurp, that's the key.

The key for EVERY GUY to making a girl orgasm:

FOREPLAY FOREPLAY FOREPLAY

I know that you are saying that your boyfriend goes down on you, etc. but seriously, make one night an all SEX night.

I mean take it tediously slow until you guys are DYING for each other, spend HOURS working up to it, play games, use food, whatever it takes, but if he gives you oral long enough that you work up to a clitoral orgasm, and then he keeps you at the brink and doesnt make you cum, then start sex, and then you will orgasm.

Try it from the back and rub your clit or have him rub your clit, this way he hits your G spot more.

Make sure that you can orgasm solo though, because if you can orgasm solo then its only a matter of time before he makes you climax too.

I mean, think about it, people can spend 3 hours watching Titanic, but they wont spend 3 hours working up to FANTASTIC sex every once in a while? Somethings wrong....