TSI25
13 years ago
Alright so, i'm 18, i dont smoke. i respect that some people do it, and that they enjoy it very much, i just dont want them to smoke right by me. |
Daisy if you do
13 years ago
Well, First of all let me give you some background, I am a smoker, but I do like to call myself a polite smoker. If I am in a crowd of people I make it a point to leave the crowd to smoke, especially if there are non-smokers. When I put my cig out, I will not throw it on the ground, I find a can somewhere or stub it out on the ground and throw it in a can that is on the back of my truck. I don't smoke around doors or places where non smokers may pass by and smell it. I do however smoke in my vehicle, and if I am with another smoker, but the windows must be down and such. If I am unsure of any other smokers I politely ask, do you mind if I step outside for a smoke? |
TSI25
13 years ago
He did ask me if i minded, but the sheer will of force made me not want to say "yes i do mind. dont smoke" |
Daisy if you do
13 years ago
I understand you said you didn't mind and then he just took advantage of the situation. Hopefully you will not have to endure his habit for long. Wishing you luck. |
Hallucinostic
13 years ago
This is probably the most practical and basic thing to say but, you could wear a facemask, like the ones used in polluted places, plus, if he sees you wearing that, indubitably he will ask and BOOYAH! there you go, you got another chance of telling him your concerns, but like what other ppl here mentioned, try to tell it in a nice, non-offending way, i think itll be more productive that way, besides, hes a smoker, he probably knows those harmful things already, but sometimes, ppl just need a lil gentle push to make em see what you want, if yknow what i mean, lol. hope this helped. :D |
Kevin
13 years ago
Just go into work one day looking really upset. He'll ask what is wrong and you reply. |
Miss MakeUp
13 years ago
Well I very much so agree. I myself am a smoker. (nasty habit that it is) But the respect of realizing others do not have to be molested by my smoke filled air folows me. My mom hates it so whenever I see her I don't do it or force her to smell it much less smoke in front of her. I don't smoke around small children. I will ask if I am sitting by someone if the smoke bothers them. If yes I move. If no I most likely still move unless they are a smoker themselves and/or are smoking themselves. It's a common courtesy would you fart in the car with someone and force them to smell it? I think not. |
Kiko
13 years ago
"Yeah, if the science supports your agenda, by all means..." |