Pesamenteiro
13 years ago
I met him six months ago, when we first met he made it very obvious that he liked me, and I really liked him too...but after a while he stopped the compliments and random text messages, I thought that maybe he just got nervous or something (since he is kind of shy) when we started getting closer. |
Dark Secrets
13 years ago
Hmm... it depends really. How did he say he liked you? As a friend, or romantically? Because he could've meant a lot by saying there are no girls that he likes, and on a blog, not to you... so I think you might have misunderstood him. I mean he may not be texting and all, but that could mean many things, especially that you said that he's shy. How does he treat you now? Does he still talk to you with interest, or does he avoid you? and how long do you usually talk... because that might be why he used to text you and now he doesn't. I say you should talk to him about it... tell him how you feel, but try to do that at the right time and not in a way that seems like you're accusing him. You could text him like he used to text you, some message he'd have to answer back to. You could also ask him about his blog post, or tell him that you've noticed he doesn't text anymore and that you miss that... good luck! |
Pesamenteiro
13 years ago
He never flat out said that he liked me, but it was obvious. He used to call me beautiful, be concerned when I wasn't online for our usual chat, and send me little poems and all that. |
Britt
13 years ago
If something with him has changed, you could try talking to him about it, but not in an attacking way. Maybe asking him if everything is okay because he hasn't seemed like he's been himself. |
Pesamenteiro
13 years ago
The thing is that he *did* lead me on, and that`s why it hurts so much. He never flat out said that he liked me, but even I, who is socially handicapped and needs these things to be obvious in order to pick up on them, could see that- but after a while, I guess he got to know the real me, and didn`t like her as much. I never stopped liking him though. |
Jad
13 years ago
Well, if he never said he liked you you should have asked him if he did. I know a lot of guys who just mess around with with different girls but in the end they never actually liked them and by him not saying he ever did it makes it simple for him to stop "messing" with that girl. I don't know if that is the case with this guy but you should try and talk to him and see what he thinks about the whole deal. Tell him how you feel and be straight forward and no beating around the bush or however that phrase goes! :P |