Why?!?

Someone explain to me why guys play the games they play, ik all guys dnt and girls play games as well so i guess what i am asking is why guys and girls play games with someone they claim to love and care about? How can they cheat and break people down the way they do, and live with themselves? How can they sleep at night, and what makes them do it?!? I wanna kno because its really old i wanna realize their games b4 im too far n and then dnt back out cuz i try to see the best in people!! Why?!?

Hi Tara, I dont really know the reason why ppl do that, and i do believe theres more than one explanation as to why ppl do that. but in my opinion, you dont really have to know the main reason as to why people do things like that, i think, when the one youre with gives the very first sign that he or she is just there to play, and youre not, i think its time to think whether to continue being with that person or not.

I kno! your exactly right its just im tha type of person who wants to save ppl and thinks well mayb everyone else has given up so if i stick around i can help and they wont do tht to me hopefully and i always try to see the best in ppl even if there is nuthn thts positive tht they r showing me, its crazy n then when it ends badly i put tha blame on muhself i jus dnt get how ppl can do tht to sum1 else i culd NEVER play sum1 or cheat its jus awful and it makes me so mad even if its not being dun to me lyke if its bein dun 2 sum1 else and ik bout it n theres nuthn i can do i get
SO mad!!

Well, ok, you like to look at peoples good sides, thats awesome, giving them a chance is really amazing, not too many do that, BUT if they screw it the first time, ok, lets say youre really that nice, give them a second chance, but girl, i think giving them a hundred chances is not a very bright idea.

I kno ands i hate tht about myself i culd have that huge red flag right in front of muh face and i still try bcuz i feel lyke to give up is badd but i need to start cuz i keep meeting tha same type a guys and girls and its driving me crazyy lyke i hate people who play w. ppls heads its just wrong! they need their own little island called Lying,cheating,playing island..enter at yur own risk haha :D

"i keep meeting tha same type a guys and girls"? Oh really now? Not even one? lol. :D

Haha ohkk i will admit i've met 1 or 2 that aren't completely tha same but there is always sum complication or no spark or sumthn tht don't fit! im not saying all dudes or girls r lyke that jus 98% of tha ones i have crossed paths with are!! >:/ I'm starting a protest! haha

Think bout this, is the "complication" bout that ?good? guy more complicated or much difficult to solve than that of the lying, playing, hurting dude? i dont think so.

Right i agree there, i do but sumtimes with my lyfe and having a babay tht makes it hard to so it adds to tha pile of complications not sayn my son is a complication cuz thts not what i mean but the guys/girls n this town r crazyyy Dib yu have no idea i kno there are crazies and creepers everywhere as we had seen haha but the nicest dudes/girls ive talked to live far away or are in a relationship and i will not go there haha lyke i stated Complications up tha A** haah! so we solve this dilemma how?!?

How? first, talk to the guys or girls involved in that complication thing, what if what you think is complicated is not complicated to them, and besides you shouldnt keep it to yourself, what if they got a solution for it. who knows?

Haha yu are a very deep thinker!! good quality to have!!! share some of tha smartness with me!!!

I try Tara, but you always start laughing whenever i use my "wise words" in our conversations, lmao! :D

Haha i laugh cuz if i respond ima sound dumb! lyke i kid yu not Dib everytime i dye my hair i get dumber idk if its tha dye sinking in or what haha but im half dumb now!!!!!!

No youre not, believe me, if youre dumb, im gonna tell you youre dumb. cmon, you know me. tho im gonna try to say that in a nicer way, but still im gonna tell you youre dumb. i didnt tell you youre dumb, so, that means youre not dumb. lol.

Haha well i feel dumb dude i was outside smokn n there were all these huge beetle things preventin me from getting in i was ascareddd!

Well, I dont think youre dumb. i think youre just... strange. lol. :D

Haaaaa me strange...yea ohkk jus a lil, but yu my frend ultiate freak haa jkjkjk:)

Hey, that strange thing, thats a compliment ok. :D
And im assuming what you said is a compliment too. lol.

Lol they r boyh compliments :]

Yup, strange and freaky, both compliments alright... whatever happened to nice or kind or good lookin or whatever, lol. :D

Lol i diff tyhen most thts how i copliment

Just keep on reminding me that theyre compliments ok? lol. :D

Lol ohkk they r