i found my lost dad's phone number...HELP! WHAT DO I DO?!?! i ha

woah uh... well do you want to speak to him? I mean sometimes things are better left alone, especially since I'm sure most everyone involved has moved on. But if you think you're going to regret not talking to him...

I agree with the two above statements....if you feel like you have something to say to him, then just say it....it's all up to you, do what you think is best....sorry that's not too helpful, but I can't think of any other advice to give you....

Kalika

Oh,that is tough ! i mean i agree to with all my mates,but i stil dont know ! i mean i would have wondered of something to say ! I might say WHY !!!

this might be harsh,but if a beloved one leaves us like that ! would he cares to hear from us after so long?!!!!
n may be am wrong too,but the thing is,dear,our hearts get hurt so fast"the daughters n sons" coz the things that our parents do are just things for them,but for us ! it lives forever !

i dont want u to be hurt,coz i can see how eager u are n how excited ,I will pray for u:)

Peace,
Darla

i think that i fyou wan to ttalk tohim, then call him. if not, then dont.

i agree with that if you dont wanna dont if you wanna do but hey dont let stanges make an impact on such a big thing in your life is all i got to say

Well my bf just had the same thing...his real dad left his family when he heard that my bf's mom was pregnant, so he ran away...
BUT my bf, who lives in the south of france, came to paris during chrismas vacation and went to meet his dad cuz he found where he worked and stuff, now they both email each other and get along well :)

You can phone him if you really want to. I mean, it IS your dad, never forget that !!! Anyway, just do what you think you should do :)
Good luck and take care,
E.

i would get i touch wit him cuz i know what it feels like not to mno ur dad. it really hurts

dear which boared ur talking about ? i dont know where to look for it !!!!!!!!!!

take it from someone who has been were you are. call him! he may be thinking of you too and if he is not and wants nothing to do with you don't look at it as wasted time and feelings you could have lived your whole life not knowing if he was thinking of you. It could also turn out that he has wanted to know yuo the whole time like my dad

Good for you straight up follow your heart.