anjielblue
13 years ago
I'm in a recent relationship now which is a long distance relationship and i love him, but i can still remember may past and can't stop comparing him to my recent boy friend.what should i do? |
Dark Secrets
13 years ago
Remember you left him for a reason and thats that... This new person should be your focus, remember the reason you're with this person and not the other is because it works for you here more than it did there. |
Liquid Grace
13 years ago
Usually a past relationship that was very serious often has lingering effects. |
anjielblue
13 years ago
Actually i'm the who broke up with him though i still love him so much,but i have to.and i don't think if i'm comparing them in a good or in a bad way.i'm just comparing them because i'm much close with my past and have more memories with him than my new boyfriend now.Yes i still miss my past relationship than in my new (LDR) boyfriend now.but i don't think i still love him or maybe i just don't wan't to remember those feelings i have for him. |
Liquid Grace
13 years ago
Your story is really all over the place and rather confusing. |
Dark Secrets
13 years ago
^ exactly what I thought... I still stand by my first reply. I mean you're the one who left him. Why did you leave him? was it really a good call? how do you know things wouldn't have worked out? If it was that bad, then why remember it all? and why compare? |
Liquid Grace
13 years ago
You really need to read this OP.. Actually read it and think about things. |
anjielblue
13 years ago
All- okay i decided to live the past so i have to stop thinking about it and stop comparing them...i have to focus my new boy friend and have a good memories with him when he got home... |
Edward D Zurovec
13 years ago
As humans we always compare things in our minds. |
anjielblue
13 years ago
Edward- you're right, and for me i really can't help it... |
Liquid Grace
13 years ago
The fact that you have a child together with your ex explains it all.. He will now in one way or another be in your life. This is a bit of a different dynamic now. It also makes it hard to move on. Even though you've been parted for 2 years you have a common connection, your child. That will always be there no matter who you date. I think that also plays a part in how you compare them. |
anjielblue
13 years ago
Grace- i admit he(the father of my baby) still involved because of our child. |
anjielblue
13 years ago
I still love my past relationship... |
Brix Ambray
13 years ago
Stop comparing..start loving truly and faithfully |
anjielblue
13 years ago
That would be it... i hope so... |
anjielblue
13 years ago
I mean that supposed to be it, but maybe too late already... |