I'm congused and I don't know what to do... can anyone help?!

CONFUSED* sorry I spelled the topic wrong! ^_^
ok... I've been going out with this guy for some time now and I love him and all.... but I don't know why. (how pathetic is that?) he can be repulsive and rude and a bunch of other things and I want to dump him... but something is holding me back.
and everytime he tries to kiss me I turn away... I can't help it I just do. and this is just part of the problem... please help me... somebody!

I've told him these things... and he has not good things to him... *sigh* thanks for helping though!

Do him, and yourself a favour and end it before things get worse.

Tell him exactly how you feel. Be blunt, don't fluff it up and be honest. Let him have his say too, be open and understanding.

A few things might happen.

He'll fly off the handle, bugger off but in a week or so he'll understand.

You'll both be better off for it and resolve what ever the real problem is.

He'll never talk to you again.

Ok, only one good possibility, but if it carries on he'll wind up resenting and hating you anyway.

Bert

thanx