who would you believe?

me and the love of my life have been together for a month now. and it's long distance, so it's been hard but worth it. he got in trouble and is grounded from everything for awhile, we talk when he's at school or his mom lets him online every now and then. and he used to love this girl KT, and he's with me now, he says he loves me and I believe him. but when i talked to KT's best friend (who doesn't know me and him are together) and she said he spent all last night whining about KT. and I don't know if she's lying, who would you believe? plz help i need advice
*~*Soldier Lover*~*

can nobody help me?? please I need advice!
*~*Soldier Lover*~*

Depends what exactly he is whining about.

If he is whining about how much of a bitch she was, happy days.

If he is whining about how much he misses her then you could be in trouble.

As always I recommend against long distance relationships. Doomed to failure in the long run.

I agree with Bret

thank you all for your advice, and abbey he was whining to KT's best friend. not me. and she told me about it, but I just met her so I dont know.
*~*Soldier Lover*~*

Long distance relationships only fail if there is insecurity. I have been in a long distance relationship 6 months and it has worked beautifully.

You need to ASK him if he is over her or if he thinks she likes him, etc. Bring her up and see his reaction. Do you trust him? Then dont worry.

thanx kaitlyn, once again you have the perfect answer to all my problems :) thanx. and I do trust him, and I hope your relationship stays strong!!
*~*Soldier Lover*~*

You cant get the answers from anyone but him. Glad I could help, keep us updated