thinking of cheating...

You're not a bad person for fantasizing, but if you cheat you'll only have yourself to blame when it all comes out and you're labelled.

What you do now follows you forever.

The choice is yours and yours alone.

Bert

you aren't a bad person, as long as you don't act on them. and the fact that you are asking for advice shows you really don't want to. but Bret is right, it's your choice.
*~*Soldier Lover*~*

Dont cheat, at give him the consideration to dump him before you would cheat on him. Its so disrespectful and shatters self confidence. Its not wrong to think about it, but its wrong to do it when it will hurt him so badly, unless he has cheated on you before and then it serves a purpose lol.

Sorry, that was evil. Do the right thing.

break up with him and then do as you please its pretty obvious you're not committed to this relationship!

Ahhh... there it is again.. the long distance relationship.

In this instance break up and explore your crush. Long distance doesn't work. It is much better for both of you in the long run.

Anyone noticing a trend yet?

Just to speak up for the long distance relationship people, I would like to rep for us, because it has been 6 or 7 months for my boyfriend and I, and I plan on making it last until I can be with him forever.

I wont argue that a few make it. But in the vast majority of cases... well, been there, done that, wasted a lot of time before I got the t-shirt.

DON"T CHEAT! cause o.O that like a crime...

I generally agree Bret, but it does happen.

bret long distance relationships...do work...

not our fault you havent had a good one in the past...

Keep on believing, SR, keep on believing.

I wonder how many people here over the age of say... twenty two are in a long distance relationship right now.

And how many of the married people here were in a long distance relationship until they got married.

And fyi, being in the Army I was stationed all over the world. My wife and I spent the majority of our first year apart, talking on long distance at 4am in the morning, writing letters and so on.

So I know it can work, but I also know in the greater scheme of things you have less than a 5% chance of going all the way.

Don't cheat ... It will only lower the view others have on you.
__________

In the wise words of Captain Planet :D
"The power is yours"

;;--mhm im weird.

marie, is it'f hard to NOT cheat on your boyfriend, then he shouldn't be your boyfriend. you should break up with him, then you are free to do what you want.
*~*Soldier Lover*~*

You might make sense if I could read what you wrote.