My Friend LOVES me But i cant love him back like he does !

this is really troubling me,i have a friend,who was my mate,then we became friends,now he insists n keep asking me IF i Love him as If we can be lovers n stuff!!! BUt am like Please I love you so much as my Friend ! as a brother !!

and now he is waiting a reply from me,I CANT lie or fool em or my self,n dont want to lose him either !!! what am gonna doo ?????

Be blunt be honest and tell him he's being a selfish ass for forcing this on you when you've made your feelings clear.

do wat bret said he has good advice

Hello love lol

Thank you Bret ! that was a good advice,But ,u knw wut ? i told him many times,but he stil cant get it !!! n when am telling him believe me i love u as a friend ! he is like oH really ! do u really love mee ? his brain is stuck !! : ((

Smack him round the chops and tell him you wont speak to him again until he stops being a selfish arse.

Do not ever say you love someone as a friend unless you know they feel the same way, it's a bad move.. a real bad move.

Thanks mate,i needed that support,actually i did send him a mail n told him,i told him that i dont have anything more to tell u ,u know me well n my ideas..thats It

he didnt reply..Loooooooooooooooool

Ugh... I hate this problem.

I had to deal with one of my best guy friends being completely in love with me and it drove me nuts, because I just loved him as a friend. I told him straight out- I dont love you like that, and I never will. What can I do to make this better for you? Because I cant change my feelings.

He told me that I would have to die before his feelings changed, lol.

See how well it worked? You cant control his feelings like he cant control yours. You have to be honest with him and let him work it out, because its HIS problem, not yours. Do whats right for you :)