You are far more attractive than you think you are.

  • Kevin
    13 years ago

    Every day, people are checking you out. You don't know about it, cause most folks are subtle and well practiced at checking people out when they don't know.

    I promise you, even if you aren't very toned, or tall or striking or sexy, people are checking you out every day. I know this because I am constantly checking out women who aren't any special kind of shape.

    Women who are not skinny, or don't have perfect skin or hair...everyone has something sexy about them. It might be their hands, the skin on their shoulder or just the way they drink their coffee.

    Trust me, you are alot hotter than you think you are.

    Work it boys and girls.

  • Decayed
    13 years ago

    You are definitely right!!

  • Beautiful Chaos
    13 years ago

    Lol So true Kev

  • Liquid Grace
    13 years ago

    What brought this on. It definitely makes a person smile. Especially someone with lower self esteem. Being a big girl myself believe it or not I am SOO self conscious. If people are looking at me I think it's because I'm overweight and never because they think I may look 'good'. This world including myself needs to see beauty for what it is.

    With that being said I soo check out my husband all the time :D

    Thanks for sharing this Kev

  • Sunshine
    13 years ago

    This must be one of the best social threads I've seen over here, nice move kevin, i love your post :D

  • silvershoes
    13 years ago

    Suddenly I feel 10x more sexy.

    Thanks Kevin.

  • sibyllene
    13 years ago

    What if I already think I'm startlingly attractive?

    : P

  • Larry Chamberlin
    13 years ago

    Join the club

  • sibyllene
    13 years ago

    That might actually be the prerequisite for "The Club." ; )

  • Jordan
    13 years ago

    SIBS!

    Don't give away our secrets.

  • Narphangu
    13 years ago

    Would I could shake my fist at your bodacious manliness and snaggletoothed ladies, Sibs. Would you mind uglifying yourself for the bystanders?

  • Kevin
    13 years ago

    I don't think it's very common for strangers to be so open and confident they blatantly show you they think you are good looking. Perhaps it's just us freezing cold Scottish people who steal appreciative glances and hold eye contact for a few seconds before shifting away..but I suspect it's a global thing.

    On my walk home today from work, I must have clocked about 40 good looking women of all shapes and sizes who walked past me. I smiled at a few of them in a sort of "hey nice day" kinda thing but only one smiled back, and even then she seemed really shy.

    In any case, I think if by some magic or CCTV situtation you could watch a video, at the end of any random day that showed you every person who was having a good old perv at you, you'd be pleasantly surprised.

    *leers at Sibby*

  • nouriguess
    13 years ago

    I usually do not care about those people who walk past me and pout, haha, I love those who flirt or smile or aaanything, they make my day LOL :P

    Thank you for this post I feel a bit more confident now and that is a hard thing to do, usually.

    Sibby: Please upload your picture over here, I wanna see ya! xP

  • Larry Chamberlin
    13 years ago

    Kevin,
    next walk home, try not flashing.

  • abracadabra
    13 years ago

    I'm far less attractive than I think I am. Sometimes, my thoughts are far too lofty for my own good.

  • Kevin
    13 years ago

    Larry, if you've got it...dangle it I always say.

    Wait.

    no yeah...dangle it.

  • Noir
    13 years ago

    For once I agree with you Kevin...

    Its sad to see the world too obessesed with beauty... Everyone is beautiful if they themselves feel it so...

    Its been too long since I last posted... You'll be happy to know that the trollish flame that is Noir is no more than embers...

    Rejoice... : P

  • Larry Chamberlin
    13 years ago

    Kevin,
    Then watch out for cats