does age really matter?

You're an adult... do what you like, girl. If it was me I'd go for it. Nothing ventured...

What have you got to lose, really? You're young, having fun and going to clubs with a girl you really like. *shrugs* How I long for those days again.

if you both feel the same about each other go for it!The age gap between you guys isnt that big of a deal.when i met my husband he was 17 and i was 20 ive never met anyone ive connected with more.Now almost 4 yrs later were married and have a beautiful son so dotn worry about age or anything of so little importnace take a chance may be best one you make.

I am with an older guy and it is working out.

I think it just depends on the maturity level and emotional stability of both people involved.

Its individual, I wouldnt recommend most of my friends date older guys because they are simply not mature enough to handle it.

ages doesn't matter when it comes to love man! but what piss me off is that? my ex-gf likes big ages people... that evil bit*h... well? she dating a senior while she only a freshman... haha... i got dumped cause of older people... but she wanted to have a better love so i couldn't do anything...

im all for thinking toodeep should go 4 it but alex i realy advise againist you doign so, being how your 13 and teh object of desire is 28 there is such a time when age does matter and this would be one of those.just my opion.

Age is but a number...
There is 15yrs difference between my partner and I hun and I couldnt imagine life without him - Good luck let us know how it goes!

That's usually a good sign, toodeep.

Nice and easy, no rush, one step at a time. Sex at an early stage can cheapen a relationship.

Heh my best friend's stepmom was learnin tah crawl when his dad was learnin tah drive!

Luye

NoLaScO... that's more commonly known as Paedophilia... think about it.

Paedophilia: The act or fantasy on the part of an adult of engaging in sexual activity with a child or children.

Making out, petting, groping, oral sex, full sex, even just thinking about it, whatever... a rose by any other name, folks.

Yeah, when they start saying that if they take you out, all they're going to do is make out, I always wonder, why bother. Then I usually get confirmation that that was their plan all along. Yeah, a 20 year old should not be having any sexual desire for a 13 year old. You're little crush is cute, but try not to lead him on. Guys like that don't need a lot of encouragement.

But, usually, when the pairing is between two consenting adults, age is but a number, 10 years difference is my personal limit.

im with a guy that is seventeen and is turning eighteen in less than a month..and im only fifteen and wont turn sixteen for another six months...my parents tell me hes to old and that i cant be with him..but he makes me soo unbelieveably happy!! and i dont want to lose that because of my parents...ive always done things that make them happy..so im going to do something to make me happy....i just hope its all worth it in the end!!

hey i was just reading your situation and i thought it was very interesting.

ive kinda bin through this too but i stopped seeing him but ill tell you what ive learned. your 18 and shes 21, this must mean that u are very mature for a 21 year old old to like an 18 year old. and ill tell you that if u think that this gurl is very special to you dont u ever loose her. you may never find another gurl like her, if you like her keep her. if u think that the age is a problem thats not right.. cuz maybe she doesnt care.. and you shouldnt either

heh when it comes to love... age doesn't really matter... ^_^!