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  • Areeana
    13 years ago

    Well I've been with a wonderful man for a little over two years but lately I've been finding myself wanting to explore different peoples bodies..such as the way they might kiss or touch me..am I a horrible person..??? I love my fiance dearly but he's the only man I've ever been with..am I wrong to be curious?

  • Kevin
    13 years ago

    We are all animals, can't be helped.

    You aren't wrong to be curious, but if you act on it and betray him that isn't a good thing.

  • sibyllene
    13 years ago

    I think it's probably pretty normal. However, please please please figure yourself out before you actually get married. If not ever being with anyone else is going to gnaw at you, then maybe you are not ready to get married, and ought to experiment a bit (after discussing this with your fiance, preferably, and cutting off that relationship for the time being). Or, if you decide that you are fine with him being your only "lover," make sure you're REALLY REALLY fine with it. As in, you should prefer it rather than just accept it.

  • Sean
    13 years ago

    We're all part of a nature driven by chemicals.

    There are two choices; given in to 'lust' or give into 'love'.

    I understand your problem, out of 7 billion people why is one person 'the one'.

    It comes down to what choice you make; you chose to be with someone and marry them - as brit says, and i agree; you owe it to yourself and your partner to 'figure yourself out' - discuss it, talk it, and live it.

  • Britt
    13 years ago

    By Britt you mean Sib, but I defintiely agree with what Sib said ;) haha

  • Areeana
    13 years ago

    Thanks everyone for voicing your opinions! It's great appreciated.

  • Areeana
    13 years ago

    Greatly*

  • Sean
    13 years ago

    ^ lol, yes i meant sib. =S