I'm gonna sound like an evil person....

I love my boyfriend lots, but it's long distance and he's grounded from all communication for awhile. and my good friend is trying to win me over. and I talk ot him everyday, he only lives an hour and a half away, so it's still long distance but not even close to as far. and I think I love them both. What should I do?? please help me!! and dont say it's because it's long distance, it's not.
*~*Soldier Lover*~*

Well, if I was you I'd be looking for something a lot closer to home.

you're 15 and want to be 'doing stuff'. It's natural and having your fella 90 minutes or more away isn't going to help one bit.

So now I've already said it's the long distance I guess I'd better answer your question...

Do what YOU feel is right. Snap decision right now A or B, heads or tails, left or right.

I agree with Bret.

Find someone close by. You wont marry anyone you date now, so just have fun.

hey? that not true? i love this girl who lives in new york! and i live in california... it's a long distance relationship... but i love her and she loves me... and we gonna be together in 2 years... so i say? u give ur long distance boy another chance...

I don't believe all long distance relationships will fail. And even IF I did go with the other guy, it would still be long distance, just a lot closer....
*~*Soldier Lover*~*

I dont think that they fail either, I am in a long distance relationship, 7 months and going strong... I will be with him forever, however most of them dont work.

age and maturity.

If you're old enough and ugly enough not to let your feelings and urges get in the way, fine. Problem is teenagers have big problems reining in their urges.

Teenage years are about making mistakes and learning from them. That isn't going to happen if you're on messenger each night talking about how perfect your relationship is.

o.O hmm... maybe you should just stick with someone who close to you... or if u believe you truly love the person who lives far... then make it a long distance relationship...

thanx you guys, I guess this is up to me.....
*~*Soldier Lover*~*