HELP! i need advice!

okay, my bf and I have been going out for about 5 months and he's been nothing but wonderful to me. the only thing is that there is another guy that I like. a lot. who also likes me. but i dont wanna break up with my bf cuz i dont want him to think he did anything wrong, and i dont want to hurt him cuz he still loves me. but if i dont, i might loose my chance with the guy that i like a lot. and i cant very well tell my bf im dumping him for another guy! help please!!

-jenn

yeah they both treat me great. theyre different though... they have like nothing in common so i really cant compare one to the other... but they're both sincere in the way they are

-jenn

no, just the one i'm going out with. but i just don't have the same feelings for him that i used to.

I kinda know how you feel, i'm in a very similar situation, I really like this guy but I still love my boyfriend and I don't want to hurt him......sometimes you have to do what's best for you.....just go with your instincts....judge their characters....who do you think would stay with you longer? do you think this is just a crush or something more? etc....think about all the angles....

Kalika

thanx so much you guys! it means a lot to me ill try and figure out what to do lol. i think the smart choice would be to stay with my bf. it would probably be better in the long run. thanx so much for your advice! it really helped

-jenn

if anyone else has any advice id like to hear it, i like to hear all sides of the story lol thanx

thanx, that really does sound exactly like what im going through. this really helped thanks

-jenn

Stay with your boyfriend. THere's always going to be some temptation coming around, but as long as he treats you right, what more do you need?