how old were you when you first did it

maybe its more about how it makes you feel inside because you (and i don't mean you personally) more likely one can say to the world that you are fine about it but you cannot lie to yourself. I also think maybe its more about once you start its kind of difficult to stop and maybe the people that regret it feel that they started to young - for example 12 years old. Just a thought... Rach xx

I was raped when I was 4, but my 1st real time was when I was 14, and I regret it completely because the guy ended up being a jerk and not even liking me, even though he was the first guy I had ever trusted enough t odo it with....and he talked me into it.

Moonwick - have every admiration for you and your daughter is lucky to have such a grounded and strong mum.

Swallowed by Death - hang in there. It amazes me how many people have suffered like this. I when through a period of sexual abuse from my grandfather that lasts from age 5 through 14 and for a while I let it damage me more than I like to admit. However I am living proof that if you deal with it, face it head on, with the help of friends, family, therapy, you can move on. I wish you every success in the world and if you need someone to talk to me email is princessfarrington@yahoo.co.uk. Hang in there xx

"their teeny boppers. I'm trying to explain but people aren't listening. They run around screaming...
"Oh yeah I lost my virginity when I was 12 and it was soooooooooo fun!"

That was a sterotypical comment....Dont you think

CALL IT WHAT YOU WANT SCOOBY....BUT THAT IS WHAT IS GOING ON IN THIS FORUM....THAT IS WHAT IS GOING ON ALL AROUND TOWN....I WENT TO AN ALTERNATIVE SCHOOL MY LAST YEAR OF HIGH SCHOOL AND THERE WAS A SCHOOL CONNECTED TO THE OTHER SIDE FOR PREGNANT TEENS AND TEENS WITH CHILDREN WITH A DAY CARE CENTER SO THEY COULD FINISH HIGH SCHOOL. I CAN NOT EVEN BEGIN TO TELL YOU HOW MANY 13 AND 14 YEAR OLD GIRLS WERE OUT THERE RUNNING AROUND 9 MONTHS PREGNANT AND WITH BABIES ON THEIR HIPS BRAGGING ABOUT THEIR "BABY DADDIES" BEING IN JAIL AND HOW MUCH FUN THEY HAD MAKING THEIR BABIES....OH MY GOD, I COULD GO ON FOR DAYS WITH THE SILLY SHIT THESE GIRLS SAID! IT WAS HORRIBLE.

All your arguing does is make people not want to come to this site. I know I'm getting tired of it. anyways it doesn't matter what they do. You can't stop them.

I wasn't arguing, just stating my opinion like everyone else. My sister got pregnant when she was 14 and killed because she was a damn teeny bopper and truthfully still is....My sister-in-law got pregnant when she was 15 and handled her business. It's not all girls, but a LOT of them. Ok bye bye....

i havent done it yet and i dont intend to until im older. kind find a guy to trust anyway.

Oh I wasn't explaining myself to you or trying to make you feel better....I don't care what you thought....If I stirred something up then so be it. What will you do, beat me up? Really, let's not be foolish here. It's the internet.

If it had been up to me I would have waited till i was married. That not being the case i was 14 willingly.

Surprizingly (i know its spelled wrong so dont correct me "nobody" and "bob shank"!!) I still am a virgin... I know for my age many people I know aren't.. I actually feel bad for them. I know i sound old fashioned when I say this but I dont feel like wasting it on any guy. I want him to really love me and I want it to be special. :-)

u go rose! i feel the same (",)

Im 15, and i have nearly done it... twice. I wouldn't regret doing it now, because the person i was with, i loved, and she loved me.

So many girls raped though... its a sad thing.
Some of my mates were, and it is is very depressing to see more upon this site.
I feel so sad for you girls.

umm i just lost mine before my seventeenth bday, jan 20th of this year...
i dont regret it at all, we waited a year and three months... thats why i knew it was worth it... why i could give him my virginity... he use to be in relationships for a piece of ass... so i knew that when he waited that long for me he was going to stick around... you know what i mean?...
i wouldnt change a thing at all...
and about the whole teens getting pregnant or whatever... i think that as long as they can support and care for the baby its cool... but if they dont care and just want the baby to be able to say they have one and dont wanna care for it... they shouldnt come within two feet of the baby.... i for one would love to ahve a baby right now... i saw that completely honestly... you people can think what you want.. but id be a good mom, and he'd be a good dad... and id be happy... so dont judge people by their actions, but by their intentions...

much love to all....

ill just say 16....

14.

HAHAHAHAHA Chris.....

Amanda...I wasn't talking shit...I'm not 14. I am grown...no need to grow anymore. I was more mature than you are now when I was 9. You have some growing to do....C-ya

Oh emi that sucks! You poor thing....BE CAREFUL my dear!! Don't regret it, just learn from it!

never ive come close lately bt im nt giving my virginity to any old idiot i want him 2 b special! Might sound corny but hey im a geek and proud! lol!

man you guys are weird! why loose your virginity that young, at 14 or 15 or something? i'm 14 turning 15 soon and i'm not planning on having sex till im married! i mean once your married and you know he's the right one you'll enjoy the experience a lot more than doing it now with a guy whose gonna leave you anyway. one short moment you enjoy is not worth all the pain and heartbreak.

Oh Amanda get over it....really. It wasn't that serious. Don't be mad because I called a group of chicks teeny boppers and you just so happened to fit the decription. It's ok, one day you'll grow to see that I am right. Get over it...

i was 14. but i was very pressured by my forceful bf who was 4 years older. if you want me to answer from my heart i would say 17 when i met my fiance who i am with now

Donny....Shut the hell up you little twit! Seriously! You are a tard for saying that...I wasn't fighting with little miss numb nuts and I won't fight with you. You are a tard for reading all of our posts and trying to get in on something you know nothing about. I wouldn't waste my time "fighting" on here.

are yall kidding im about to be 18 and still a virgin

lmao...i feel so isolated....im still a virgin....

Umm....Im 14, and not planing to "Do It" until, much later...tanks for asking :)

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I wish there were more teens like you in here..... Good for you all!!!

hey hey hey me too! i'm a virgin and i'm def. not having sex till i'm married...so there

Good for you Sat!!! I THINK THAT IS AWESOME!!

i havent done it, mostly because im scared, then cuz i dont want to do it til marriage cuz i want my husband to know that i waited.

omg did some 1 say 9!!! :O:O:O lol at lisa marie!! ent most of u a little young? especially as most people on this site come from america where the age is 18 where as here its 16:P we can have sex b 4 u :P lol immaturity :D

16, i regret it, the guy sucked in the sack (ha ha), plus it ruined the relationship, plus it made me feel like the only way to keep a guy was sex(actually that was kinda before) plus none of it was special or romantic it was just "wanna do it" "ok" in out there yuh go. plus, i wudnt have made the mistake of having sex with a guy i was dating, falling in love with him and then getting my heart broken.
~Freak~

by the way, haha i love what people call it...did you "do it" haha "it" haha its so...i dunno...oldschool to me haha.
~Freak~

Im a virgin :( lol
i wana fuk my ex bf who is also a real close frend he wants to fuk me too
im just shy lol

**BULL**

just unsure, dnt wana rek things with him

i suggest deadnalone that you don't do it with him. Wait for someone who is your boyfriend, trust me it will only lead to heartache if he isn't and then to top it all off mixing with an Ex? It's just asking for trouble.
~Freak~

16. It was with the love of my life and i always wanted it to be him. Unfortunately, we broke up 3 days later. Be warned girls, Lads are never worth it cus they'll break ur heart sooner or later. Just always hope its later. Luv Gem xx

Another teeny bopper..........

What exactly do you mean by 'teeny bopper'. Sorry for sounding blonde, but aint that sumthing to do with music? Lol.

Never

"i suggest deadnalone that you don't do it with him. Wait for someone who is your boyfriend, trust me it will only lead to heartache if he isn't and then to top it all off mixing with an Ex? It's just asking for trouble.
~Freak~"

yeah i no i wudnt less i was dating him neways

im almost 17 and i have never done it yet. wow 17... im getting OLD!!!!