HELP NEEDED URGENTLY

well heres the thing
ive never properly meet my dad, he left me and mum wen i was like 2.
Well his dad just died and im going to the funeral.
I saw my dad at the hospital today saying my goodbyes, wen he saw me he ran, i burst out crying.
Well i now dont want to go to the funeral because i no that my dad hates me. i dont no wat to do.
I really really really dont want to see him :-(
ARghhhhhhhh
Help me
Thanx
Paige

I'm sorry about your dad but you should still go to the funeral, i don't know how close you were to your grandfather but if your close then you owe it to him to go. Mabey you should bring a friend so it won't be as hard to see your dad because you'll have someone with you. If you weren't close to your grandfather, well i'm sure he'd be happy with you just visiting him privately after the funeral, i hope this helped a little. I wish you the best.

How can he hate you? He doesn't know you. Don't worry about him and go to the funeral. You don't have to talk to him or anything.

it's not your dad's funeral. so go pay your respects to your grandfather. and when you see your father, show him that you are a better person than he is, and instead of turning away, just look at him in the eyes. you don't need to say anything, just face him.

Rather than hating you perhaps he hates himself.

Seeing you could remind him how much of an idiot he's been.

If he hated you he would more likely have told you to leave.

I think you should still go, after all, you are paying your last respects to your grandfather, not your father. If you don't want to be near you dad, then try sitting as far away as possible. But then again, like Brett said, he is more likelyt hating himeslf than you, so maybe you should try to make contact and let him know that it's alright between the two of you?

Only if you feel strong enough though,
peace x

Your dad may not hate you. Maybe he is scared and that is his way of dealing with his fear. I would go.

Perhaps, he ran because of the guilt that weighed upon him. Men change, times change. What was true then may not be true now. Go, if only to find out that he hates you. I feel he does not. But knowing is better than living through life thinking he hates you when in fact he cares for you. If he says he hates you, well you already think that, so are prepared for the blow. What have you to lose? Other than ignorance of the truth.