uh, im in a situation. please help

  • Katie Bug :)
    19 years ago

    hmm. i dont know how to put this... ok... i like two guys. one's 14 and will be 15 in may his name is seth and i think he's really nice. and one's 17 and will be 18 in november and he's really nice too, his name's john. i would see seth more. but i've known john longer. i went to a concert and sat with seth and it was fun and all. they both like me. and i like them.....what should i do. :/ im so lost......please help...... thank you

  • Steven
    19 years ago

    gee... depends on how much there willing to give up just for you =/ or that something i don't know what to say...

  • *~*Soldier Lover*~*
    19 years ago

    who is closer to your age? age doesn't really matter but that might factor in.....who would you have more fun with? who do you like more? all these things and more should factor into your decision
    *~*Soldier Lover*~*

  • Katie Bug :)
    19 years ago

    Ok, seth is closer to my age, he's gunna be 15 in may and im 15 now. i've known john since last year sometime and he went to homecoming with me. we had a good time. but i dont know. john can be cool. but i dont konw. AHHH. im so confused. and then, seth is kinda hyperactive...but he's really sweet. O_O i dont know what to do....

  • Babaths
    19 years ago

    Try to know both better and think about the futur.

  • Bret Higgins
    19 years ago

    Stick with the kid your own age.

    A. You're less likely to be used (regardless of how long you've known John)

    B. There'll be a bit more innocence to your relationship. You have bigger fish to fry. Don't waste your education by frittering away your school years on relationships.

    C. It probably doesn't seem like much but the 3 year age gap can be a daunting thing, especially if you last and he hits 21. The world will open up for him and he'll start doing things and going to places like bars and clubs that you won't.

    D. I've been there as an older lad with a younger, mature girlfriend.

  • Steven
    19 years ago

    hey? o.O depend on how much there willing to give... cause my ex-gf really loves people like 3 or high more age then her self...because mostly grown up people look hot and stuff ...