sickness or over protecting?

i don't know what to do? i feel like the girl i really love gonna get taken away from some other dude... am sure everyone has that kinda fear... but i have that fear taken over my thought and the idea of trusting someone.... gee cause each moment i think someone might take the girl i love away from me... is this a sickness or am just over protecting?

i dont think its either. i think its called...LOVE. you're worried something is going to happen to the one you love. there's nothing wrong with that. i would need more info on the topic in order to help more. sorry hon'. but from what i know, i think its just love. :) good luck.

okay here the story? i love this girl really much!... but there this other dude who loves the heck out of her... she says she loves me more then the other dude... i really believe her... i really trust her... am just worryed that the other person might win her heart and take her away... i don't want that to happen... but i don't really want to talk to her about this... cause last time i talked to my ex-girlfriend about this.. cause i thought a dude was gonna take her away from me... and i got in a fight and we broke up...sigh... everyone seems to like to take the girls i like away from me... so i get over protect... but i guess am just sick... cause i over protect a bit to much...

ok, well, if she says she likes you more then believe her. if she truly likes you more then you'll know it. why arent you two going out then if you both like each other so much? uh..... i dont think there's anything wrong. you just want the one you like/love. i do the same thing. im sorry if im not much help. i'll continue helping if i think of more. good luck and keep me posted!!!!!!!

ps. could you do me a favor and post to my issue? if you want to. its called "uh, im in a situation, please help" or something like that. thank you much.

pss. my friend said you should be a little over protective cause this has happened before, but you do have to have some trust in her and understand if she loves you she wont go with someone else. and you do have a right to be jealous but dont take it to far. :)

thought i'd get a second opinoin!!!! :) good luck hon'

you are not sick, but is there a way you could talk to her that wouldnt make it look like you dont trust her? that might be the best way, or just trust her and overcome your jealous over protectiveness....
*~*Soldier Lover*~*

thank you for posting on mine soldier and steven. :) im the "uh im in a situation" one :) heh.

u guys all got a point... i should be over protecting that much...
and am not going out with her... cause she doesn't want me to going out with her... cause she kinda has 2 people loving her... so yeah? and beside? she really far away from me =/

woah...how far away is she from you???

am in california? and she in new york... haha... but in 2 years she gonna be coming to california to live with me

lucky you! i dont get to go live with my bf for another 3 years........well I hope it works, as long distance relationships are hard.......
*~*Soldier Lover*~*

=/ i really love her... but she thinks i doesn't love her... i would do everything just for another chance... anything!!!