i dislike being me...

I am a 13 year old school girl. I love to write poems (mostly sad ones) My problem is that i dislike my life. At school i have loads of mates and boys talk to me but most of the time they take the micky. I aint ugly or any thing but i am abit dull and i aint got the best body (i am slim but i still hate my body) My mates some times take the mick as well like saying i always choose crap boyfriends and i have no style. They dont relise it but it gets me down.

hey girl believe me you're not the only one who doesn't like their body, every women breathing finds something wrong it's normal. just remember to be grateful for what you do have or what you like about yourself, and as for your friends instead of criticisizing you they should try to help go shopping together buy a fashion magazine. hey if you ever wanna chat here's my e-mail stefunky@sbcglobal.net

In 10 years do you want to feel this way? Because I gaurantee you if you do not STOP now, you will.
Learn to accept yourselfs for what you are. Tall, skinny, fat, dull, loud. Whatever.
As my mother used to say.. and this is quite morbid, but its true. When you are lying on your death bed, and you have nobody else but yourself, will you care about your size, shape and weight? And do you think everyone else will?
My point: you live your life and then you DIE. Gone. Kaput. Do you want to spend your whole life wondering and caring what other bloody people think? Learn to love and accept yourselfs, find yourself friends that will love you for YOU and get bloody happy...

- Rachel

i hate myself too, im kinda like that where everyone says i shuldnt think that, but i do

i hate myself, every piece of me. i hate my feelings, how i act, how i speak, my attitudes, everything about me. I amost got on the point where i almost commited suicide...

lol... it was a long while ago when I hated myself, I hated the way I look, speak, walk, think... just about everything... everytime I looked in the mirror I thought I looked so damn ugly... one day I stopped to hate myself, I accepted who I am... now when I look in the mirror I would think "hey, I actually look good"...

hey i 2 have felt like this b4 and i just got over it but if ur friends r doing that tlk 2 them tell them how u feel maybe they will stop. no one is perfect. if we all were the world would stink. luv heather

My mates some times take the mick as well like saying i always choose crap boyfriends and i have no style.
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You're 13. Go grab a book, study for school, and forget about boys for at least two years.

Didn't look at the dates. SOmebody had bumped it to the top. But let that be a reminder anyway: If you are young forget boys/girls and enjoy being a child.

My dear girl, you have many years before you to worry about boys. You don't have to grow up in a day. You will regret it later. Hopefully as you grow older, and mature, you will realize that you can live without having a boyfriend. Everything comes in time.

Kalika

I can really relate, im 13 too, crap year, i hate myself too, but for different reasons....
You gotta realise that so many people do love you and you got a lot to live for, focus on the future =]

How do you know whether people love you or not? It's so difficult to love yourself when people keep telling you just how much is wrong with you and how things would be easier (better) if you weren't around...