A lonely soul
11 years ago
What, no hot blooded real debates to stir things up (while I am on vacation)! Absolutely disappointing :( |
Hellon
11 years ago
Ok...first in here...no worries! When the word controversial in used I always thing...in 5 maybe 10 years time it will not be so...it will be acceptable, regardless of which topic it's addressing. |
A lonely soul
11 years ago
Do not disagree with the age of "use" (any is fine as long as it is approved by FDA for that age). |
Larry Chamberlin
11 years ago
First of all, your assertion is absolutely wrong about the FDA banning it. If you read your link you would see the following: |
A lonely soul
11 years ago
Never said or meant that FDA banned it above. What I referred to is the Judge permitting OTC purchase and use by a "child (independent of an adult supervision)", over-ruling sensible restriction by the HHS secretary and her supervisor the President. He has 2 girls in that age group himself. |
Larry Chamberlin
11 years ago
Excuse my error, I must have been confused by your statement: |
A lonely soul
11 years ago
Very true, Larry. |
sibyllene
11 years ago
I'm fine with it, though I think there could be some quick counseling at the time of purchase. Like, how to use it, side effects, phone number for concerns, etc. |
A lonely soul
11 years ago
I can see your point, and I agree to a large extent. However, an adult should be involved at all times to track the use of "pills" by all juveniles. After all, do we allow 9-14 year old to take Tylenol or Aspirin on their own? Perhaps, instead of putting it in coin vending machines at school or in the peppermint candy shelves :), it could be dispensed by a pharmacist without a Rx, after he/she has screened (can use a pre-approved written screening questionnaire) the person for other pre-existing conditions that may require a visit to a doctor. This way the risks are minimized. Currently: |
abracadabra
11 years ago
I don't think the word sex needs asterisks. |
abracadabra
11 years ago
Ha, I've told him and he just said something like 'ah shit, that must have sucked, did you get sick?'. It did suck. It was a long time ago when I was venturing very cautiously into the world of sex. After the second time, I decided to go on the pill even though I wasn't having sex regularly. That didn't suit me and my forgetfulness either. For the past few years, I've had the implant under my arm and it's pretty awesome for me, though it does cause unpleasant side effects for many women. |
abracadabra
11 years ago
No script, no ID. Went to the pharmacist, answered a few questions, signed a questionnaire, got some info, and left with the pill. I think if I was suspected to be under 16, the pharmacist may have had to report me. |
A lonely soul
11 years ago
My use of the word with s** with asterisks is my choice out of respect for our very young members. I do not want to be seen as giving them more incentive to use the word freely than they already have amongst their peers. Yes feel free to criticize me on that. |
abracadabra
11 years ago
...if you think sex is a secret from anyone of any age...well. And making sex even dirtier by making it a taboo, elusive subject...well. We obviously have very different approaches to a healthy attitude toward sex. It's a word of science and love and life, it is not a word that contains bile. |
Marcy Lewis
11 years ago
I have two sides on this issue. |
A lonely soul
11 years ago
^Exactly why it is a debate. A topic with 2 different views. |
Marcy Lewis
11 years ago
Well, I don't think sex is a very provocative word, not criticizing you. Really, no offense intended. Sexual reproduction is a term used in biology, and sex is used in medicine. That's really what this topic is about, if you want to narrow it down. |
A lonely soul
11 years ago
It depends on the context of how how sex and sexuality are used. No this part of my comment was directed also to Mrs. Abby as well, Ms Linda. I appreciate your thoughts on the topic though. |
abracadabra
11 years ago
I would have written my post to anyone who censors the word sex while raising the topic in the first place. It was a curious thing to me that still has not been explained. Unless being old-fashioned was the explanation. That's fine. Don't take things personally, Mr Lonely. |
A lonely soul
11 years ago
While waiting for the wheel of furture host, Mr. Dib to answer, I might as well take a crack at it. |
abracadabra
11 years ago
Don't you mean s** educator? |
A lonely soul
11 years ago
Now, now are we not making a judgement on someone we don't know at all! |
Marcy Lewis
11 years ago
"I have never heard that EC allows more women to hide rape incidents. If these same women wanted to hide the rape in the first place, would they have ever seeked help? Or waited for an abortion? In an ideal world, they would seek help and have free access to EC. That can't always be the case." |
A lonely soul
11 years ago
Preaching abstinence in kids...a very good point Linda. That is what our ancestors did for a very long time, worked to prevent unwanted early life s**, assaults and immature behavior for many Eastern and middle Eastern societies and cultures..still does as proved by the average age of first s** in these societies being over 21*, as against the Western cultures. However, I am not sure if it reduces adult rape, though it does reduce the child rape statistics in the Eastern societies, significantly. In the West, it does not work well , for several reasons, the biggest being permissiveness and openly promiscuos behavior, TV and internet, perhaps |
sibyllene
11 years ago
"That is what our ancestors did for a very long time, worked to prevent unwanted early life s**" |
A lonely soul
11 years ago
Maybe, but then how else would you explain these statistics. The more Westernized the country, the earlier the loss of virginity. By "our ancestors" I probably meant only a few generations. |
abracadabra
11 years ago
Linda, can you send me links to your research? Very interested in your findings of unreported rape due to EC in young women. That is quite serious. As I said, I know most rape goes unreported, but still unsure how EC exacerbates it. In my mind, a woman either wants to report rape or she doesn't. If a woman gets raped and doesn't want to report it and doesn't have access to EC, what would make her reach for a rape kit instead? In fact, isn't a rape kit a bit of a deterrent to a woman who is already uncomfortable with reporting rape - the kit is said to be invasive, expensive and time-consuming, isn't it? I would have thought these same women would do nothing and hope for the best, otherwise resort to abortion. But these are just my presumed thoughts, never researched, would love to see the details of the study. |
abracadabra
11 years ago
Oh, and when I said EC is better than other alternatives, I meant realistically, not ideally. Abstinence is all well and good, but even the best sex education (our best tool to stop the need for EC for young people) isn't foolproof. |
Marcy Lewis
11 years ago
Actually, the state pays for the rape kit - so it has nothing to do with money for us. |
Beautiful Chaos
11 years ago
When you are considered an adult, you should be able to do as you see fit. My daughter is 14, I want to now what is going on with her and I want to be involved in her decision making process. Thankfully for me we have a close relationship and she is quite honest with me about everything and I as a logical person know she is going to make mistakes and that she deserves to have options. While the morning after pill and in some cases even abortion should be an option, the top of the list should be education and birth control. |
A lonely soul
11 years ago
In the case of the Plan B it was first approved for use in 1999. the oversight FDA panel voted 23-4, an overwhelming majority to make the drug available OTC to 16 and over in 2003, however delayed their official recommendation until 2005. As the FDA officials and staff were still hedging in 2009 whether 17 year olds could use Plan B safely without a prescription -- District Judge Korman ordered FDA to make Plan B available OTC for consumers 17 years and older. Later, in another 2011 petition the Judge took upon himself to make it OTC for people younger than 16, which is what caused a surprise to everyone. |