What do I do?

okay so my g/f and I have been on rocky ground. We decided to take a *break* and she slept with someone she's had feelings for for awhile. I love her so much but I just wanted to die because I don't know. I told a friend who decided to tell her. Scared the crap out of her, she thinks I'm psycho or something. And on top of that I can't see her at all. Not alone where we can talk anyway.

You, my friend, seriously need to back off, get some new air and detatch the emotions.

You need a new perspective, a new goal and a if you drink, you need to get good and drunked because this relationship is over.

Hard to hear, almost impossible to accept but there it is. Black and white. She has feelings for another and she's acted on them. Forget about what you think or if you've scared the crap out of her. That's superfluous, bottom line is she's doing her own thing and you NEED to do yours.

That means moving on. You're crushed, I can tell, I've been there. Like she's ripped out yout heart and shown it to you as it slowly dies with each pathetic heart beat.

Admit it's over and done, say it out loud. Say it loud a few times in fact. Get it out of your system. You'll soon realise that although you love her (and probably always will) you're deserving of more.

I am guessing she asked for the break, right? Well, if so you know why. And breaks are useless, better to end things there and then, which she has done for you.

Sorry buddy.

I agree with Bret - its gunna hurt and it won't be easy but its for the best mate - I too am sorry!

to tell you the truth? bret always right man... he got the skills for all these stuff...