!!!!!!!should i belive him?????

if he cant give you an explanataion id have to say thers soemthing to hide.If in fact it was nothing and soem werid bizarre mishap hed wnat to quickly expalin so that you wouldnt get the wrong impression so the fact that he cant expalin means its shows its pretty self explanaitory why his pants were down =(.Marriage is a huge commiment one in which have lots of trust and commmunication between both partners if hes keeping stuff from you alrdy its a bad sign.There are lots of guys out nevr setlle for soemone who wont treat you the best.good luck.

If he's in another girl's bed and caught with his pants down he's either sleep walking or cheating.

If you let him get away it once you're destined to become his 'welcome mat'. Think very seriously about that.

Ok, if he was in some other girls bed with his pants down with no explanation something is not right. He had no business in someone elses bed...I can't really think of a good explanation for that really. He was probably doing something he shouldn't have been doing.

This is where your trust for him factors in.

I caught a bf cheating, he swore he'd never do it again, 2 yrs later he had slept with 6 other girls and I had no clue.

Bret is right on the welcome mat thing and no one wants to be that - you deserve better

How do you know this?

Did he admit to it or did you catch him?

Honestly, if he cant give you a good reason, like sleep walking and then comatose, then his story sounds like bull shit to me. You need to have a serious conversation with him.

maybe he was masturbating and is too embaressed to tell you...i dout it but...its a possability...just listen to your heart...

He shouldnt be masterbating with another girl in the bed!!!!!!

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