Bad Guys?

Ok, why are most females drawn to guys who are "bad". Is it our need to fix things or what...the whole challenge factor? I'm not sure myself. But I figured maybe if I knew the problem I could correct it in myself...so a little help here please?

Every girl loves a bastard. It's to do with dominance and to Alpha male syndrome, something I used to great effect when I was single. I used the techniques of the bastard and bastardised it to suit my natural friendly demeanor.

All the girls like Han Solo over Luke.

Just recognise the type and avoid if that's what you want.

Bert

double post

My list of ex's 1st- on house arrest when I met him, 2nd- abuser, 3rd- Drug Felon...these were my serious relationships.

I have dated nice guys but they bore me, i guess. I honestly don't know...if they are too nice its very easy to walk all over them. Horrible I know but it just happens some times.

I like dating bad guys who I have control over and who are more than capable of doing anything to anyone at any time, except me.

I like to have them wrapped around my finger.

See, Han Solo in a nutshell.. Smuggler, rogue, scoundrel.

Women love bastards.

i don't love bastards ... Usually
i love a jerk but he's not bad
not all grls like bad boys

bad boys are fun, edgy, and dangerous, as well as mysterious. every 'bad' boy i've known has actually had a really deep soul, that can also draw us females in....;)
*~*Soldier Lover*~*

I dont like a guy who lets me walk all over him, I like mutual respect, but I like reformed edgy bad boys who still have a temper if crossed. I also like intelligence, so I dont date anyone who is stupid and just young, therefor "bad" because of immaturity.

But to be honest I like control of anyone, any situation, and all the time. It's a girl thing. It takes a bad boy to handle me

In a multitude of facets ;)

Sometimes a girl can do with a little punishment that only a bad boy can give...

I personally dont like the attention that good boys give you....them spoil me too much and it gets annoying .... my baby i have right now fresh out of jail...2 felonies....gives me the right amount of attention and love

Nice guys? where? Oh, you mean the guys that are over there not paying any attention to me because they're too busy being perfect in school and church? Yeah, that's why I decided to hold off on dating until I graduate. Nice guys don't want the distraction, and I don't need it either. It's better to just be friends, yo.

But do I prefer bad boys? Uh, no, I go mostly for nerds. Sometimes geeks. Occasionally dweebs. Musicians, writers, and scientists, my forte.

Mostly it's the excitment factor of the rogue that makes a girl go wibbly inside.

If you were to have a one night stand I would bet that most would feel an instant attraction to the rogue persona.

Im a nice guy who used to get a LOT of girls using the bastard technique... which kind of makes me a bastard I guess...

Still, what's done is done.

well, i like sensitive guys more. sad guys u can say. they're just so cute! and i like making them happy. and i think the same concept works here. they can do wutever they want to other people, but its this whole 'i can change him' thing that all girls think is really romantic. like in grease. plus they think that 'bad boys' are alwayz really sensitive and stuff. but trust me that only happens in movies. which is exactly y girls love that. they want their life to be just like a romantic movie. but i really doubt thats gunna happen. and u cant do anything about it bcuz no matter wut, u'll try to make ur life a movie for a long time. long long time. maybe even forever. but i wouldnt know. im 14.

well a lot of the time they stay with them but now bcuz they like that they're doing that bcuz it gives them more of a bad guy type of thing. its usually bcuz they're scared to leave them after they do something like that. or they think 'o he didnt mean it he loves me.' but if they did leave him, i think they would still want a bad guy. just not like him u know? its a disease.

i guess they feel safe around a bad ass o.O cause nobody would dare to mess with you... and you don't see hot girls with pussys and stuff... o.O o well taht life i guess?

There is a security factor in being with a bad boy.

Keeping in mind that raging testosterone doesnt discriminate, and that any anger can be used against you as well.

Its a trade off, and it depends on the guy. You've got to know the difference between a stupid bad boy and a trust worthy one who would never hurt you. But how do you tell? Hmmmm.

Well, I found mine, so I'm not too worried about it.