was i stupid or not?

If he could do it to you once, he could do it to you again, no hesitation. I know what its like, I forgive people easily too, but we both need to not let people trample us like that. If he had the opportunity, I would bet you he would do it again. Its a curse....anyhow, I think you were stupid to forgive him, but had a nice heart to try to forget it. You weren't even as much stupid as just naive or something. Take Care, no offense intended.

!Sierra

Because....I couldn't tell you. Ask a guy that question and even I don't think he could tell you truthfully. That's a question that will plague all of mankind for ages, same as women. Understanding is probably the issue there though.

If I was you I'd get rid now and save the wait. Once a guy cheats and knows he can say sorry and make up you're destined to be a doormat. Do yourself a favour and break the cycle now.

im the same way...i forgive too easily...i cheated on my boyfriend once and if he cheated on me i would like to think i wou ld break up with him but i wouldnt cause i did it once and he forgave me...if he did it twice i would break up with him...your supposed to be with someone who you can trust and who will never hurt you

Hunny - you were stupid :o( Sorry

If he hurts you once, its his fault he's in the wrong for betraying you.

If you let him back into your life and he does it again - it's your fault

FOr reals...you'll find someone sooo much better

STUPID

OKAY, now listen to me.#1 no your not stupid you just have a lot of hope and faith. now since you guys were only going out for a month maybe he didnt really love you and he was trying to see how you would react say he did something stupid like goimng all the way with another girl. Then again i dont know his age, maybe he just an imature moron, no offense. But you know what time will tell, if you can see that hes being a little shady then dump him. see how he reacts. If he really loves you he'll try anything to win you back. You know people always say love isnt a game, it true heartfelt blah blah blah... NO. Love is a game and if you play it right, with a lot of experience you will, you find yourself in love with someone you would never do that to you. I myslef know that im crazy about my bf, if we broke up i would go crazy. Even though when we do break up im the one doing the dumping. If you messes up on me i let him go, but its how he shows that he wants me back that lets me decide if im going to take hoim back.

He is a liar. You aren't stupid, but never take him back. He will just continue to cheat on you for as long as you are together.

I think you need to find someone who respects you enough not to cheat on you, if you keep takeing him back he is just going to think he can do it again. And he'll think you'll take him back....I have a question....did he tell you he cheated or did you find out...cuz if you just found out then he might do it again and be smarter about it so that you don't find out.

well people can regret things and maybe your boyfriends regrets this I know what it feels because me and my boyfriend went threw the same thing and he keept his promise if your love is true he wont do it again

well people can regret things and maybe your boyfriends regrets this I know what it feels because me and my boyfriend went threw the same thing and he keept his promise if your love is true he wont do it again

wow that really sux people do that to me and my bf all the time they make up lies so we will get in fights but wow why cant you guys be together any more if you guys love / like each other