who here dates by looks and money?

am just wondering that all? since my ex-gf left me for someone who 3 years bigger then her and looks better then i'll ever look and rich...

well just something i sayed to a close friend of mine that all

XxelementzELxX: don't worry man... people in the world date girls by looks.. you date them by there heart... so you should find better happness then they ever will

a lot of people do that, thats true. but not all of them. i dont. but i dont even really date. way too complicated. not worth the trouble. but anywayz. its just the way the world is. one of these days, when they're older, they usually realize that they cant live this way and start looking for something more than money and sex. and if they dont, they usually grow up depressed. or on a street corner. and ur friends right, bcuz ur way more likely to find the right girl than a guy who dates girls based on their bra size.

o.O gee! u got a point there.. not everyone gonna be loveing someone from there heart... i love my ex-gf cause she was pretty... but i found out more in her heart... she was painful and her life was in choas... i just wanted to help... but i no longer can... nice point u got there

Most people just tend to change their mind too much...

yeah that kinda turn? i used to be a person who choose looks and stuff... but never money? cause i wasn't that evil >.< but i changed over time? cause i found out that? the more pretty the girl is? the more evil she tend to get o.O don't mean that in a bad way...

When I was single I used to go by looks because I know what I like.

Money was a factor because I lived at home and wasn't about to take some older woman back to drink coffee with my mum in the morning. I used to take some of the younger girls home, but only three I think.

Everyone dates by looks and money to a certain extent, especially in the beginning.

Anyone who denies that is either lying or has no concept of themselves.

Am I a player?

No I am not, I do not consider myself to ever have been one either. I never cheated on anyone, I was always honest and I had fun.

I have also been a totally faithful boyfriend and husband to my girl since we met in 1998.

Denies.

Deny deny deny.

Denies denies denies.

I know for a FACT YOU are lying, because I know you have pretty good self concept, lol.

Define player.

I didnt say you were a player. I said this:

"Everyone dates by looks and money to a certain extent, especially in the beginning.

Anyone who denies that is either lying or has no concept of themselves."

You said DENY. But you could have also just pointed out my spelling error :)

If you are asking for my opinion on if you were a player: I think you were, but I dont think it was with mal intent. If I could call you a player and remove the negative conotation, I would, because I am sure you tried your utmost to not trample over girls, and you are reformed now.

You said DENY. But you could have also just pointed out my spelling error :)

Yurp.

I never trampled on any girls during my bed hopping years. I had a few regular 'friends' who knew the situation. I never lied to any women I went out with.

I'm not reformed, I'm settled. The spirit of the past reigns true, only now it's totally focused on my one love.

Players dont have to lie.

Its the negative connotation that people get hung up on. I dont think you were ever/ are a player in a negative way, I think women peaked your interest and you sought to learn from them, hence your mission began, and you had to "play," because they were "playing" you. Simple.

Hmm K, I agree and relent.. I have always called it the game and the chase.

Thats all it is. Hence "playing," got its name.

The meaning has evolved, and now it has become somewhat the name for a male slut, but I dont see it that way.

It takes talent, understanding, and discipline to play the games that women have mastered, and just because women arent referred to as players normally, does not mean that most dont deserve a gold metal in the sport. Even unconsciously.

o.O wow? looks and money? or heart? i no longer know which is the best answer to go with?

Steven, never doubt it's heart and soul. looks and money can fade, but the soul and heart won't....
*~*Soldier Lover*~*

*tears* you could use that as a quote... cause that really means alot i tell ya

Me date my looks and money? No...maybe JUST A LITTLE of the looks...but Never money....to me it depends on how they act...what they like...all that important stuff...(did i make any sense)

I think girls date for money WAY more than guys do.

But I think in general guys date for looks WAY more than females do.

Maybe I actually made some sense

lol, you did.

awesome!

Opinions are like assholes, everybody has one.

Including yourself. You dont like what I have to say- skip my posts. Thats my advice for you :)

o.O yeah that gonna be a pretty mess up battle... but o well?

Aimz- i like wut Kaitlin has to say, and i agree with her. she doesnt have to keep anything to herself. and if u dont like wut she has to say, then dont read it. get over urself.

well? i got nothing to say about it... since everyone have there own different idea of dating someone....i use to date girls by look.. but all i found was lost and broken friendship... so i took my steps lower and easyer... it' just like? would i leave someone i love for someone else that looks better? not really... haha since i wasn't any hottie or anything so i got nothing like that to worry about