Get her to open up her heart

Man, I'm like the worst. My girl doesn't feel like she can talk about things in her life to me. Dude, that isn't good. Even after 8 months she still isn't that comfortable around me to tell me what's happing in her life. I want to be apart of it, not excluded all together. Does anyone know a way that she could feel more able to tell what's on her mind or something?
-it's been driving me crazy

Lol, anyone?

Patience, acceptance and a quiet stillness.

I second that!~

Uhm, alright.

Yurp, sorry, there's no easy way round it.

u said 8 months?...... woahw.... we'll i'm a female myself... da best advice i could give u, is make her feel comfortable with u~by lettin her know u want her to be and that you won't run off on her because you really do care and whatever it is that is going on with her that you will learn and try to understand it and help her , let her know that u shouldnt be treated like the enemy or stranger.... let her know that she shouldnt feel uncomfortable with u because you are not going to be or are the one that will laugh at her and you wont judge her, tell her that you are a patient person with her and you will wait as much as you can because you really do care and also have her respond right after..... that is how you need to talk to her... if nethang... email me... take care

dont forget to say how u feel about~ her feelin uncomfortable with u.... (express) expressin usually opens a ladies eye

Well we've been together Since July 7th actually. But anywayz, thanks for the advise.

Yeah, yelling isn't my style. I want to listen to her or talk about something real. Try to put myself in her shoes one may say as well. btw, I'm a girl too. Yeah, and I still don't know what to do. As for it being personal...how much more personal could it get. I mean, she told me her biggest secret of her life but won't talk to me about daily life. Ay, maybe I'm asking too much. Oh well. -Peace

DUDE man i feel the same? i couldn't get my ex-gf to talk to me... so we broke up cause she just thought of me more as a friend then a boyfriend >.

Oh? Man, in that case it isn't lookin' to good from where I can see.