CHINESE WAY OF SAYING LOVE?

boy?
a boy to love a girl is like walking over a mountain
girl?
a girl to love a boy is like walking over sand...
o.O don't blame me for saying those... just something the chinese sayed... that it's better for the girls to chase after the guys.. not guys chasing after girls

Not so much the ease of the chase but the ease of love itself.

For a girl to love a boy and be accepted is very very easy, she just says I love you, he says ok.

For a boy to love a girl and be accepted is a very different matter, he says I love you, she invariably says prove it.

hopefully that makes sense.

Bret - such wisdom mate.......

i disagree with u Me. i think wut bret said it true. in most cases. girls cant just take an 'i love you' and live with it. they want a huge candlelit dinner and they want a ring and they want 10 dozen roses. like in the movies. they want a big romantic love scene and they wont accept ur 'i love you's until they get it.

I was only rephrasing the Chinese proverb, don't disagree with me, disagree with the Chinese *grins*

Time to wax philosophical methinks.

o.O chinese is filled with werid stuff? but love is always never in the mind of the chinese... it's more of faimly and how faimlys get along with each other... that what confuses sayed? if that how you spell it

I dont need roses, and dinner, and a ring. when my guy says he loves me it's more than enough for me.
*~*Soldier Lover*~*

melody, can u be more specific as to who thats directed towards

lol ya i know.

wait are u talking about me?

let's all be nice here ^_^

What Yasmin said reminds me of that one Alicia keys song, one of the lines in the song goes like this :Some people need three dozen roses
And that's the only way to prove you love them" But in my opinion, Bret is def. right. But why do girls always say "prove it"? Anyone want to answer that one?

i think its bcuz we want everything to be like a movie. didnt i already say that? i did, i did say that. we want it to be insanely romantic. we dont want just an 'i love you' we want some insane life changing event that we wont ever forget. thats wut we want. well. thats wut i want. and i think thats wut a lot of other girls want. we want our name flashing on the stage during a broadway show. we just want the guy that we're in love with to be a psycho romantic, is all. now, is that so much to ask?

An answer to yasmins question. Yes.