FEMALE IN NEED FOR ADVICE.....:*(

I need advice too.... we'll 6 monthz ago there was an end to a 2yr almost 3 yr relationship i was in with this guy. and its march, and he sent me an email inviting me to a performance he is going to be at and he said it would mean alot to him if i go, the day of the performance is the 28th of this month... and i'm undecided, he doesnt have any idea if i am or if i'm not. I dont believe in horoscopes but it is a coincidence dat now i read my horoscope yesterday for this month and it says that something from several months ago is going to come around the corner for me(which its that performance thing where me and him will see each other again and etc) , and ima have to either choose to go with it or abandon it and replace it with something new, it also says that whatever i chose on whatever it is from the past months will affect the next months in front of me so that i should stay true to myself..... i dont know what to do.. and i feel like ima break before that day gets here becoz i'm so caught up and undecided...... i wanna go badly to see his talent and all.... but i dont becauze i dont want him to see me... ive been a wreck and look like one now... and it will hurt me to let him see me hurt and all.. i knoe he will be able to see through me..... and thats not good.

well do you still care about him? if you feel you could handle being there, by all means go. Get all dressed up, and fix your hair and do your make up. but keep an open mind to all possibilities.....
*~*Soldier Lover*~*

Yah both have good points..... and I would chose both sides if I could.... :( damn.... I would get all dressy and go.. but at the same time it would be like rewinding back to something that took me so many months to slowly recover and heal from, and i'm still trying to. the thing is.. I do still care for him.. and it would mean alot to him... its just not easy to step back and see him.. i know i will be amazed by his talent... and he knows that as well... and then ima let myself fall on my face if yah know what i mean... i just dont think i should go back ..... I dont know..... write bak

well if you dont know, other opinions wont help. you just have to do what you feel is best. in the end it's your life, do what you need to.
'A girl's gotta do what a girl's gotta do'
*~*Soldier Lover*~*

If you don't know then at least be prepared to go. Make arrangements just in case.

If you don't you'll be in a jam if you decide to go at the last minute. Arrangements are easier to cancel than set up.