shyness...

Does it annoy you when people are way to shy to ask you out? just wondering. it took this one guy a week to ask me out cause he was too shy. i just wanna know your opinion. thanks

It doesn't annoy me. Look at tha positive side...at least he finally got tha guts to ask you.

o.O well? am more scaryed to ask someone out... cause they might say no... so i never dare to ask someone out... but it doesn't annoy me... since the person must fear or scaryed to ask

no no no no. that probably came across the wrong way. it DOESNT annoy me. i was just wondering if it annoyed anyone else. as for him wondering if i would say yes or not....he knew i would. i told him i liked him. i get really shy too. i probably wouldnt have asked him out at all. :s i may sound dumb. but....i dont mean to. he's a really nice guy though. we're going out now. he asked me out tonight finally. :) ....

yeah, he finally asked me out. but this kinda sucks...he plays baseball and during baseball season im like NEVER gunna get to see him. he has practice everyday and games on the days he doesnt have practice. :( i wish he went to my school. well, at least i get to see him every sunday. :) and i think maybe this weekend i get to see him both saturday and sunday. not sure. O_O as for making the first move. im not sure who that will be. we're both extremely shy. who do you think should make the first move?

aww its great to hear that you're happy. and the reason i didnt just ask him out, is well.....because IM SHY! :) hence the whole topic. well, im glad to hear that you're in the best relationship ever. i hope mine works out that way also! :)

*~* katie *~*

I love shy people too. I can be shy too, that "womanly coyness" that we are stereotypically known to do when courting, and I avoid conflict. I prefer to be courted, and I always fall for shy guys because it seems to mean a little more.

no, it doesn't annoy me... i think i find it attractive. well, being shy is different from being a coward. i mean this one guy had to ask his friend to ask me out for him. that was not a good sign for me :/ anywho- it's cute when a guy shows affection fo you but is too shy to ask you out. at least that's what i think since i don't really date.

ugh, for the last time. IT DOESNT ANNOY ME!!!!!!!!!!!! i was just curious if it annoyed ANYONE! me and him are doing good now. as i have said before. im just scared/nervous about who's gunna end up making the first move. i hope its him. i am way to shy to make the first move. i will, but i dont want it to be like, bad timing or anything. Who do YOU GUYS think should take the first move?

no, it doesnt annoy me. it shows that he doesnt want to mess anythin up with u. although if ya know its gonna happen, and your just waiting for him to ask you, it can get a bit tough. hope ya'll are happy togetha. ttyl.

ok, babe.lets see, thats a tough one. its tough makin tha first move. let him get tha feelin that you want to go forward a bit, but its probably best to let him make tha first move. unless you feel confident. which you should totally be! your awesome and better know u deserve tha best. hopefully he deserves u too. ttyl. lylas!!

thanks gabs. although you could've told me cause you're sitting like, two feet away from me. but oh well. i appreciate it! :) and thank you so much again.

hahaha. yea i kno but im lettin others know too! lol. gotta run. ttyl.

reply to the original post:

DUDE! A week! LOL. I waited for this one guy from Easter all the way through to June 25 (this was back in 2001). I got pissed off and bit the bullet myself. You know what he said to me, "Damn, why didn't you ask me out sooner?" Aaahgh. That was so irritating. Especially since I'm so impatient.

haha, i mean, uh, sorry. yeah we've been going out for a week and a day! WOO ;) heh. i wont get to see him for like 2 or 3 weeks now though. :( this sucks. he has baseball practice all the time and on weekends. and this weekend im getting my wisdom teeth out so i cant see him at church or anything. so im gunna try to go to one of his games. but anyway. well...as for the "who should make the first move?" we both kinda did it together. but all we've done is kiss....im not a fast mover. :) my hair ruined it though. i went to kiss him after giving him a hug...and when i turned my head. my hair flew in my face and we kissed through my hair! i was so embarrassed!!!!!!!! ahh, i still am. i saw him the next day, but we didnt kiss. :( oh well. there'll be plenty more opprotunities. :)