Weekly Contest Results, 13 October 2014

  • Dancing Rivers
    10 years ago

    Hellon it's all good, no hard feelings, it was rather entertaining to say the least, and thank you for imparting your wisdom on me, it's always fun to hear what the older generations have to say :-) (hugs to you)

  • Dancing Rivers
    10 years ago

    Ddavidd you're absolutely sweet for taking my psyche into consideration, but to put your mind at ease I must tell you quite truthfully that my psyche has been left entirely unharmed and therefore I must ask you both to please make peace and let's forget this entire theatrical mess before there really are psyches harmed :-) you two (along with everyone else) only meant to guide me and impart wisdom on me in your own unique ways, and as far as I'm concerned that calls for a huge "thank you"to everyone, rather than further argument ;-)

  • Michael D Nalley
    10 years ago

    Blessed are the peace makers <3

    http://youtu.be/kQvmCzILBfE

  • Dancing Rivers
    10 years ago

    He he thank you Mike <3 :-)

  • Larry Chamberlin
    10 years ago

    Hellon, you are right, but there are ways of detecting the use of such devices.

  • ddavidd
    10 years ago

    Great then
    so Larry you are saying that you already used those measures to verify the authenticity of the identity of the 18 years of girl only upon the suspicion merely based on her association with me.
    Okay good good. Then there is no more needs for any farther interrogation about her home town, here city, her country, on the board and via pm.

    Sorry Hazel you are going to lose lots of attention. In over 10 years period of time that I was here nobody ever asked me about my where about at all never mind this much from so many people all at once .

  • Dancing Rivers
    10 years ago

    He he ddavidd,I think you might be misunderstanding Larry's intentions by saying"there are ways to verify..."I'm sure he didn't mean it in the sense of doubting my identity, he was simply telling Hellon that if such a case were to occur, there are ways to go about verifying a person's identity, but thank you for trying to stick up for me again, it's very sweet of you to be so helpful and loyal to a cause <3 and about the attention being lost, that's perfectly fine with me, yes I'm a Leo, but I'm more of a cub than a lioness,I don't really revel in the spotlight very much, I'm more the type to cheer someone else on from the sidelines :-)

  • ddavidd
    10 years ago

    Dear Hazel it is not about you, it is an ethical problem ( never mind the ill will that is pointing at me)
    for example you can not excuse harassment in any workplace based on the fact that one of the victim was strong and mature enough to disregard or ignore the abuse. It is about the principle.

    Edited
    Also I was glad that Larry verified that if he did. Because something should put stop to these harassment ( of me actually) For this is not the first time they did it

  • Dancing Rivers
    10 years ago

    Also, PS, I'm sure anyone could see that my photo is a home taken one,a "selfie"taken from my room, and anyone can see that I'm 18 years old, and those who met me the first few days I was on this site should know that I'm certainly not technologically inclined enough to go through all the fuss of creating a false identity, the closest I've got to that is my pseudonym that I write under even when I write stuff just for me that I don't post anywhere or show anyone, and even that pseudonym is not very creative, it is simply a combination of my mom's, sister's and my names or at least, an aspect of who I am (leonha, female form of Leo,"n"for nut,"ha"for Hazel, throw it all together and you have leonha" the"s"is for ssenevol, my biological mom's name backward, Marie, the other derivative of Mary, my sister's name, both who passed away when I was five

  • Dancing Rivers
    10 years ago

    And what reason do they have harass you? You seem to be a perfectly nice guy.also perhaps we're all taking all of this far too personally for anyone's good, we should really all,I think, take a breather, in fact, it might be a good idea (hinting at the moderators) to lock this thread before tensions run too high for anyone to control...?

  • ddavidd
    10 years ago

    Hazel the reason is a long story you do not want to hear.

    Hellon these are two of the links you asked for there are more but I can not find them:

    http://www.poems-and-quotes.com/discussion/topic.html?topic_id=142005

    http://www.poems-and-quotes.com/discussion/topic.html?topic_id=142363

  • Dancing Rivers
    10 years ago

    Alrighty, if you insist ddavidd, though to be truthful, I'm rather curious now :-P

  • Britt
    10 years ago

    Hellon I've missed your face!!

    Gotta love the new eagerness. Or not. I feel like one of them old wolves D was mentioning!

    Anyway, Hellon, don't disappear for so long next time.

    Edit: Congrats winners of last week :)

  • Hellon
    10 years ago

    Hi Britt...waves...glad someone missed me lol!!!

    Ddavidd, thanks for supplying these links, I'd never have found them :)

    As you can see, in the first link,just as I thought, I was asking NIN if he was you on another account...when he finally answered for himself although, his answer was not straightforward....that was the end of it.

    The other thread....you call that harassment? Looks like you were harassing me to be honest, constantly editing your posts out without saying so making me look like a complete idiot in some cases when my responses ending up not quite in sync with yours. Apart from that...I would say I just gave as good as I got, nothing to do with harassment...just not agreeing with everything you said there.

    Funny thing that, when things don't quite go your way as the guru of P&Q and someone dares to have a thought of their own...you start playing the victim and call harassment...so juvenile.

  • ddavidd
    10 years ago

    O you could explain everything away. It is always the victims fault.
    Or what ?? my noise was harassing your fist?? sorry next time the broken noise would not resist as much.
    My guess is that you never been accused of something you haven't done, continually for few weeks.
    Being claver might convince some naive spectators but believe me it would never wash out the inner conscience.
    Accepting one's mistake needs way more courage than a politician like you could ever afford.
    By the way for you being a politician is number one choice one would wonder why didn't you pressure that.

    And the guru thing, mock it as much as you want. I said it in the beginning it was for entertainment purpose; here was too boring.

  • Hellon
    10 years ago

    For goodness sake...just drop it ddavidd...you don't like the fact that I refuse to roll over and agree with EVERYTHING you say. I have my own opinions but that does not make me a politician (I have no idea where's your coming from with this BTW) it just means they are not always the same as yours but...you seem to have a problem when you cannot be the 'mentor' you seem to want to be on this site. There are no victims here and...I'm unsure why you wish to portray yourself in this way?

  • ddavidd
    10 years ago

    There are . you said and mor than that insinuated continuasly that I am duble standard and sniky and hav double account even after I toled you the truth. One apology would sufise. But not for you you would go page after page to not to give that. you harras everyone but your ego.

    Edited
    Whenever did I try to force you to think like me? The fact that I am open to discussion does not mean that I am imposing my opinion on you.
    You guys have zero mental tolerance for constructive argument. You engage the argument then when you can not win, cry baby.
    For you guys having any opinion other than the confine of conventional cliche, is considered harassment on its own: How dare you to say You are bothered by my accusation? you enforcing your mentorship on me! haha

    But I know where these things come from:
    people want to exam their idea against yours then when you show them they have no knowledge to do so, they attack knowledge itself, then they accuse you enforcing your mentorship on them. No if you do not want to be answered do not ask. if you can not afford an argument ( that you know you can not win- if winning is all you are looking for )do not start it.

  • Hellon
    10 years ago

    Let's just get this straight ddavidd...I have never accused you of anything...not of having double standards nor being sneaky so please do not put words in my mouth. I asked a direct question on three occasions...all are recorded on the threads.

    #1..to Nin...are you ddavidd on another account?

    his answer was slightly vague.

    #2..are NIN & ddavidd also Illumanati the former mod...well turns out NIN was in fact Illuminati so...I'm not going to apologise for that one.

    #3...are you ddavidd also Hazel.

    None of these are accusations...they are direct questions.

    "You guys have zero mental tolerance for constructive argument"

    ^^^

    There you go again...implying that members on here are ganging up on you when I've already stated that I fly solo on here and...I'm not ganging up or harassing...I'm just standing my ground.

  • ddavidd
    10 years ago

    "I've already stated that I fly solo"

    when did you do that??
    you say you said things that you did not. You insinuate things that you do not have to say. You are quite a politician.

    so I do not care to sink in this quagmire of denial. you are not woman enough to apologize or take responsibility for your mistake so be it.
    but now you know: DON'T do it again....!
    that is all.

  • ddavidd
    10 years ago

    "There you go again...implying that members on here are ganging up on you"

    what can I say :: I AM THE UGLY DUCLING
    my voice is unfamiliar to your quacks

  • Hellon
    10 years ago

    Here is my full comment from the first link your provide...

    You guys want to get me one way or the other
    ^^^^

    What Guys?...I'm flying solo here...what's the deal..I wasn't even talking to you as I said...my question was directed at the member called NIN.

    I have no problem with you BTW...I actually think you're quite ok....

    You see ddavidd all of the things you have said to me in your last post are actually direct accusations but...have I cried wolf/harassment or anything else? No of course not.

    Anyway...I'm in the middle of making a lovely Korean dish called Dak Galbi which is requiring my attention now...if you would like the recipe....pm me OK :)

  • ddavidd
    10 years ago

    Leave some for me

  • Hellon
    10 years ago

    No chance! there's never any leftovers when I make this dish....it's so yummy :)

  • ddavidd
    10 years ago

    No chance for you guys if I were there

  • Hellon
    10 years ago

    You like spicy food?

  • ddavidd
    10 years ago

    It depends but yes

  • Hellon
    10 years ago

    There are some gochujeon left....try one of them :)

  • ddavidd
    10 years ago

    One I am a big guy one would just tickle my tummy.
    you are not offering the main course. So this means I am not invited as equal. so I pass
    but thanks.
    Try Persian food sometimes

  • Hellon
    10 years ago

    Google gochujeon....it's a very large chilli pancake about the size of your average pizza so...I'm sure it would fill a hole. Which hole you choose, of course, is entirely up to you.

    Persian food?...I don't eat carpets :)

  • ddavidd
    10 years ago

    Or cat or wisdom or poetry.

    so there are so many holes like the showerhead.
    Why should I choose?? Why shouldn't be enough food for all the holes equally according to their depth ??

  • Larry Chamberlin
    10 years ago

    Carry on elsewhere - locking at 100