Gentlemen...

Are they so rare these days? Or is it just my imagination? Did they become an extinict race? Are they hidding from women or men? I want (and have) a gentleman as a boyfriend, someone who will treat me right. Women ask yourself do you want a gentleman who will want to hold you close at night instead of someone who wants a one night stand then leave you the next day? I'm not saying that isn't what some women want, but think in the long run...do you want a man who will bail out of your life (and that of your children in the future), or a man who will stick to you like glue when times get hard? I would rather have someone that will keep me happy and be faithful to me as I will to them.

I have always wanted to be a perfect gentleman, but realized too late it takes practice

Lol it's never too late to learn hon, like you said it takes practice but it's not impossible.

I think there is a line in the song Joan Baez wrote with Dylan in mind that I hope applied to me more so than my lack of social skills

http://www.azlyrics.com/lyrics/joanbaez/windsoftheolddays.html

"Why do I sit the autumnal judge
Years of self-righteousness will not budge
Singer or savior, it was his to choose
Which of us knows what was his to lose
Because idols are best when they're made of stone
A savior's a nuisance to live with at home
Stars often fall, heroes go unsung
And martyrs most certainly die too young"

My my lol what intresting lyrics those are lol to be fair lots of people are maytyrs and the certainly don't die young.

If you would do me the honor of watching my youtube of my midlife crisis (or if there or any males that are putting of social skills) My regret in the making of the video was not showing more pictures . One reason is I love the song that I selected for it from a YT selection . It was actually apropos it was cut short just like our honeymoon :)

http://youtu.be/XEVAvSbKfRU

http://youtu.be/uAIN2-BtWvE