~*LorienElf*~
19 years ago
i dont know what to do.i never really open up to anyone about anything because im afraid theyll leave me because of what im thinking about. i think a lot about death blood suicide ect., but i dont think theyd really understand, but i dont know because ive never opened up. are other people really not open about stuff like that either, or is it just me? advice? |
Tainted Butterfly
19 years ago
I grew very close to someone who thought about the same things you did to an extent. They taught me a lot about myself and about life. I personally have found it hard to open up to other people about certain things in my life as well. There is no advice I can give you to change that. It is not just you, many people are afraid to open up. I know that I am afraid of people leaving my life too or judging me for dumb things. If you never open up to anyone though, you never get to feel the greatest things in life like love and you never learn to trust. If you do open up, you may be hurt or lied to or left behind by some. But you'll never grow stronger or more sure of yourself if you don't. My advice then..what I can give. Open yourself up to someone you really trust. First see if they can open up to you. If they can, return the favor and you'll make strong relationships with people out of it. |
~*LorienElf*~
19 years ago
ya sometimes i think its them not me, but these people are my best friends, i was hoping at least theyd understand...i hope they will at least |
ღ*KiM*ღ
19 years ago
ok i was in the same situation as you, didn't know whether to tell anyone...anything basically. But i began 2 put trust in one particular person and, although its taken a while, im beginning to totally open up to her, which has helped me enormously. So i advise talking to somebody you really trust fully. |