I WANT MY BABY BACK! HELP!

  • NoPatience
    19 years ago

    I love him but his new gf jumped me last week! we were together 1 yr and 5 mts and theyve been together a month. I want him Back!!! i know he loves me he told me and he slept with me less than a week ago but he told me that he doesnt know if hes gonna leave her or not! wtf? well

    Any advice? please?
    how do i get my baby back? his mom and my mom said that we still belong together and that were meant to be and that theyre waitin 4 the day that we get back together. and they dont like his new gf at all..
    please help! i want my baby back!

  • Kaitlin Kristina
    19 years ago

    You deserve better. If he is not willing to leave her for you then why would you invest in this guy? Honestly you should tell him that he is hurting you and if he will not leave her he cant have you. He cant "have his cake and eat it too." This isnt a problem you have unless you let him walk all over you, stand for yourself and make sure you get treated like you deserve. You would never do this to him, right? Well he obviously doesnt feel the same way about you if he will hurt you like this.

  • NoPatience
    19 years ago

    WELL THE THING IS IS THAT HIS MOM HAS RECENTLY BEEN TOLD THAT SHE HAS A SIST GROWING IN HER BRAIN THAT IS BLOCKING ALL THE FLUIDS AND SHE HAS TO HAVE BRAIN SURGERY. I THINK THE REASON HE DOESNT WANT TO LEAVE HER IS BC HE DOESNT WANT THE STRESS TO PILE UP FROM THAT TOO AND MAYBE HE FEELS LIKE SHELL BE THERE I DUNNO. BUT ALL I CAN DO IS TELL HIM THAT IM HERE FOR HIM AND THE REST IS UP TO HIM

  • NoPatience
    19 years ago

    RIGHT?

  • *~*Soldier Lover*~*
    19 years ago

    it sounds like he has bigger worries, no offense, just be there for him....let him work through this thing with his mom first, you next...
    *~*Soldier Lover*~*

  • Kaitlin Kristina
    19 years ago

    SL has a point.

    Its a difficult situation, you need to decide how much your happiness is worth and if it means more to you than his. Sorry I cant offer more help on this one, but its a tough call.

  • NoPatience
    19 years ago

    i dont know. he know i am here for him. im not trying to be selfish i just think that he should want me to be there with him thru all this and i am but he just is choosing her over me and i dont know y but i just wish he would be tru to me and never lie. im not being selfish but!!! iono. i love him with all my heart and i want him back so bad and i know he wants that too but hes gotta lotta sh-- goin on i guess i just miss him and it hurts alot to see him walking aroung with his hands around her waist and bein all lovey with her like he used to be with me. i want to be with him and i love him more than life itself