ALL THIS WAY AND NOTHING!!!! plez read

I decided to go see my Ex, who i was with for three years... when I was there he had to go out for supper with family so i stayed at his house... I couldnt help but look around... i found letters from his Ex... i couldnt help but read them... when I did i layed on the floor and cryed like a baby... I didnt say anything when he came home... when he came home... we went to bed and i didnt say anything...tonight when we started talkin it slipt out... we got in a huge yellin match... both ending up in tears... i now have no idea what i should do... he let me look at his online journal... he thought that he was helping me... but all it did was hurt me....I am now totally torn... what should I do? i cant just walk away... Ive tryed, all i did was hurt me more... could someone help me....

Xox Sherrie

He's obviously your ex for a reason..pick up your emotions, don't go visit him, and get on with your life.

I wish it was that easy....

I agree. Most human beings lack the ability to communicate with each other. If you could both have a civilized conversation where you can point out opinions and facts about your relationship that need improvement or work, things can go for the better.

Have empathy. Walk a mile in his shoes. Most people who do that then have more compassion for the other.

thank you... i did talk to him... all he kept sayin to me was i wish you could cry in front of me... how can you talk to someone... and im the type of person who gets upset and holds it all in...

Let it out. If you truly love him like it seems, then letting your feelings out for him won't be so hard. If he really does care and is worth all the trouble he will comfort you and everything will be alright. Give him some time. Give yourself some time. Work on it. Practice makes perfect.

but im not strong enuff to go throught this again if nothing is goin to amount from it...
Xox Sherrie

Hun, you don't need the "alpha male". Lol... you can do better than him.
Love you,
Tiff

Try to remember the reason you to broke up, and if you still think breaking up in the first place was for the best then move on, if not try to talk to him about your feelings and then his. If that doesn't work have some good sex, and save the talking for the next morning. ;)

All that ever happens is the Sex... and your right...Remeber the way he hurts me.... thanks....Xox Sherrie