i wanna tell my mum *plz help*

Sit her down and tell her. Be honest, be blunt and tell her you need her help, her love and support (being the key word) to get through this.

Bret is right, but remember not only to tell her that you cut. tell her everything that is happening that causes you to cut. that way, she will better understand whay, and will be able to help you better. just be honest with her and yourself

If you feel like your going to back out, you could write her a letter or poem :) xxx

If you want to tell her get ready for her to think your crazy.... i doubt she'll be okay with it.... but it your good with that driver....

Xox Sherrie

If you want to tell her then go ahead. Sit her down and tell her you have something really important to say but you're scared because you don't know how she'll react. I personally do not recommend it. It's very hard. But maybe it will be easier for you. Maybe you're mother will react with an emotion other than anger.

Good luck and keep me posted with what happens! :)

Love,
Tiff

I haven't told my parents but they found out. When I was 13 my friend saw my wrist and se told like everyone. My dad was really sad and he cried and my mother was mad at me. It was horrible.

They thought I stopped but I've still been doing since then, I am 17 now. And just last thursday my parents found out again. I won't expain how cause you probably don't care. If you wanna know then you can ask and I'll tell you. My mother was quite mad again. I told her that I only did it once since the last time, which isn't true. And she said that if she finds out that I do it again that she's sending me to a hospital. She said some very hurtful things to me. If was awful. If you wanna know more just private message me.

Love you,
Tiff

hey i told my parents and i feel sooooo much better now. im happier, i feel like i can talk 2 them more. you should tell your mom too.

flipper will you tell me how it went to see if i get the courage to tell mine

Sit her down and say 2 her mum...i know you're gettin upset that you don't know whats going on anymore but ive been finding things hard... explain 2 her what's been going on and say because you didn't feel you could talk to anyone about it...the only resort to stop yourself hurting was through cutting yourself. And if you have scars...show her. I don't think she'll take it well but once she has gotten used 2 the idea im sure she'll try and help! It mite give u a doorway to talk about things aswell :) I hope this helps. If you want to talk further Email or IM me on chic_uk_01@hotmail.com

Tell her that you cut... and if you really did stop, tell her that you USED to cut. Tell her that you need her not to be upset (she would be upset, naturally) and that with her help and her support you'll be completely over it.

... That's what I did, hopefully your mom is a better mother than my mom

~Tina

I don't remember who it was that said it, but I've always told people that if they want to talk to their parents about something, but don't know how, to write them a letter. Someone else had metioned that earlier as well....You'll be really surpirsed at how well it helps.

I didn't tell my parents, but they did find out. I've gone the through the story a whole bunch on here, but in a nutshell, my friend told on me and they found out. It was hard to deal with though. We all cried when they first found out, even my doctor because my family is really close to her, but then over the next couple of weeks, and even to this day (this was 2 years ago) my mom goes through a whole bunch of emotions.

She has no idea that I've just resently wanted to start again...I haven't....but let tell ya...my urges get stronger with each day, and each new tear.

umm flipper just a fair warning tell her mom as soon as possible trust me cuz it gets harder with out support, like i had no support and started cutting and then i cut again 3 days later and my mom found out it wasnt pretty, because she wont get me help and she thinks this is the first time she doesnt know that ive done this for a couple years now, tell your mom that way if you do cut, you can actually get help, if you want it. good luck pimpin

I cut and iv never told but i rarely still do i wont tell my parents bc they may send me away

be liike mom im tired of holding this
i need to tell you something
please dont be mad
since im coming clean and everything...
be prepared for her to help u stop