HELP ME OUT PLEASE!!!

  • Bret Higgins
    19 years ago

    How old is he, and WHY does your mom not want you together any more?

  • Bret Higgins
    19 years ago

    Ok, what was the DJJ time for, were you with him at the time he was supposed to be with him and how much more do you trust your boyfriend over your mum?

  • Bret Higgins
    19 years ago

    Well, you seem determined not to give up what he is accused of and it is also apparent that regardless of what your mum thinks you're going to keep seeing your boyfriend.

    But it's a trust issue. Your mum does not trust you to remain safe and out of trouble at all times while you're with this kid.

    Remember this isn't about love, it's just about trust. It's about your safety and your education.

    If you think that you might get caught up in trouble at school or outside of it because of your lad then I am with your mum. Parents don't make snap decisions or idly decide they don't like someone, there is always a good reason. Maybe you should talk with your mum about this more in depth before it ruins your relationship.

  • Bret Higgins
    19 years ago

    Easy way to get her attention is to say that until she wants to talk about it like an adult you'll carry on seeing him.

  • Bret Higgins
    19 years ago

    Just remember that you choose boyfriends and they do come and go, but you can't choose family.

  • Bret Higgins
    19 years ago

    Yep, the only one who can make a decision is your good self. I hope it goes well whatever it is you choose to do.

  • rayn
    19 years ago

    don't listen to your mom, follow your heart