Confused

Have you ever wished that you're boyfriend or girlfriend was as close to you as your friend. I'm asking this because I've sorta wanted that. I love my girlfriend but I also love my best friend. Except...I'm not sure anymore who I love in THAT way anymore. It's just that it's hard to tell anymore the greater love. Uhm, I'm not sure what I'm asking. I'm just a little confused at the moment. Okay..I've fallen for my best friend but..I still love my girlfriend. It's just so weird. Yeah..I'm confused.

Alot of people might disagree with me but I think that there is a difference between being in Love and loving someone. For example u love ur family but ur not in love with them. It all depends on the type of love that u feel about the 2. Do u feel love as a friend for one and maybe ur in love with the other. To me if ur in love you want to spend ur future with that person and it's about more than just a friendship it is also ur lover and it's someone u can confide in on all levels! Someone that u are always thinking about when u are apart. Don't know if that made any sense or not.

Actually, that makes perfect sense. However, my g/f can't confide in me and I then find it harder for me to do so to her. As for my best friend, she told me she liked me not long ago and yeah. And of course my best friend and I share EVERYTHING with one another and our deepest desires, dreams, hopes, and secrets. Though I do want to spend the rest of my life with my girl..but if we can't communicate, how can we get closer? Oh, and I think about both of them just about as much but possibly more so of my g/f. yeah.

I would stay with ur girlfriend if I was u just my opinion. U just need to work on communication thats all. Be honest with her tell her u need to open up. I think once things are out in the open u will find that they will go much smoother and u won't have to wonder about ur feelings for someone else because it's more than likely u just have a communication problem and u r frustrated right now. U don't want to take the chance of losing a best firend she is someone that will be there for years to come. U don't find to many friends u can totally trust.

Okay, thanks for answering my question. I'll try to talk to my girl. :D thanks again.