silvershoes
6 years ago
Milly has been randomly selected as our 14th Poet of the Fortnight (PotF)! Milly is a 52 year old woman living in the UK , whose 1 year PnQ anniversary is coming up in February. She is an active, insightful, and thoughtful member of the community, who has already written 1,189 comments on member poems, which is not only impressive, but a testament to her generosity. |
Milly Hayward
6 years ago, updated 6 years ago
Thank you Jane for your lovely introduction. It's a real pleasure to be here. |
ddavidd
replied to Milly Hayward
6 years ago, updated 6 years ago
Dear Mill, there are so many questions I wish to ask but I confine myself to this one for now. |
Milly Hayward
replied to ddavidd
6 years ago, updated 6 years ago
Thank you Frank . I've had an interesting life with many adventures. I try and live my life with the attitude "For every negative that happens there is a positive if you only look hard enough" This is my coping mechanism for any bad stuff that happens to me. |
Ben Pickard
6 years ago
Milly, |
Milly Hayward
replied to Ben Pickard
6 years ago, updated 6 years ago
Thank you Ben.... I wish I had more than a few seconds. I would write.... I love you Stephen for eternity xx |
Em
replied to Liz
6 years ago
I have the same problem Milly = milky maybe it's a good new nickname that said here are my questions.... |
Milly Hayward
replied to Liz
6 years ago, updated 6 years ago
Thank you for your question. I have the same problem with the "Milky" lol. I have to keep checking that I'm signing Milly :) I was a girl guide of honour at an Exhibition and was on a break when I saw what I thought were some old unusual typewriters. I got talking to the elderly gentleman who was a Braille teacher Mr Hibell. He taught me the first five letters in about twenty minutes I was hooked. He and his wife were so lovely. I got myself a paper round and paid for my lessons and my writing frame and stylus and went every Saturday morning for one to one training. I think the reason I learnt it so well was because I had to learn it backwards. Using the Frame you have the use the stylus to make the holes writing from right to left on the paper and then turning the paper over to read left to right) so you literally have to learn everything backwards and forwards. Regretfully over the years with all the travelling around my frame and stylus got lost but I still have some of my braille papers in the loft somewhere. I always keep a look out and read Braille where I find it in public places it reminds me that I still can lol. |
Milly Hayward
replied to Em
6 years ago, updated 6 years ago
Thank you Em :) With all the cold weather and no sign of sun I think I'm seriously turning milky lol. |
Brenda
6 years ago
Milly, how awesome you have been chosen for P.O.T.F! From what I've read so far it sounds like you have had a fascinating life thus far. Before I ask my questions I had a few from your previous answers. I think it's so cool you can read braille. I have twin uncles that are both blind. They both read braille and use a stylus so I have grown up with them as role models. Nothing has stopped them from doing anything. It seems with your medical issues it hasn't stopped you from everyday moving forward, learning new things. Milly, you truly are an inspiration! You have made that choice that you remain positive even when your health isn't being very nice to you. |
Meena Krish
replied to Brenda
6 years ago
Milly its so good to know more about you and the things you done and |
Milly Hayward
replied to Brenda
6 years ago, updated 6 years ago
Thank you Brenda for your lovely comments. I am very fortunate that most of my life I was fit and relatively healthy. Its not always easy to keep positive but I only have two choices. Give in and dive into the depths of despair or try and find something positive to cling onto and do the best that I can. |
Kitty Cat Lady
6 years ago
Yay, Milly's own thread :-) |
silvershoes
6 years ago, updated 6 years ago
Wow, you are so well traveled. I'm envious. There is nothing I love more than traveling... okay, maybe besides my cats. |
Milly Hayward
replied to Meena Krish
6 years ago
Hi Meena, Thank you for your kind comments and for your questions. |
Milly Hayward
replied to Kitty Cat Lady
6 years ago, updated 6 years ago
Hi Miss Kitty, Thank you for your kind comments and your questions. |
Milly Hayward
replied to silvershoes
6 years ago, updated 6 years ago
Thank you Jane for your comments and questions. There is still plenty of time for you to travel :) |
Kitty Cat Lady
6 years ago
You can touch type faster than you can speak? I'm in awe of that Milly! |
Michael
6 years ago
Miss Milly :) |
Milly Hayward
replied to Kitty Cat Lady
6 years ago, updated 6 years ago
Hi Miss Kitty, I was giggling when I remembered the tent incident my friend and I were both trying to giggle quietly whilst putting it up because it was on a slope and in the dark. |
Milly Hayward
replied to Michael
6 years ago
Thank you Michael :) Yes I remember being glued to the black and white TV watching Top of the Pops and I seem to recall there was a weekly magazine that used to come out with all the lyrics to the songs. My friends and I would sit in the stair well singing the latest Top of the Pop songs at lunchtimes when everyone was out playing lol. |
naaz
6 years ago, updated 6 years ago
Hi Milly, first of all, I would like to say that your journey so far in life is an inspiration for us. You are a live example of that whatever the circumstances or situations in life we should never quit. |
Milly Hayward
replied to naaz
6 years ago, updated 6 years ago
Thank you Black Hole, these are unusual questions indeed....Will do my best :) |
Michael
replied to Milly Hayward
6 years ago
Hi Miss Milly |
Milly Hayward
replied to Michael
6 years ago
Michael yes the Goodies were also all time greats for me too. They just don't make them like that any more :) thanks again for the interesting questions. Take care, much love Milly x |
Kitty Cat Lady
6 years ago
Hi lovely Milly, |
Milly Hayward
replied to Kitty Cat Lady
6 years ago, updated 6 years ago
Hi Miss Kitty :) Thank you for your kind comments, I'm really exited to be here and the questions are all so interesting. Answering them makes me think of many things that I had forgotten :) |
Kitty Cat Lady
replied to Milly Hayward
6 years ago
Wow Milly! That's really inspiring (I knew it would be!) and as you've seen it first hand I have no doubt that you'd successfully achieve this given half a chance, with your fabulous 'can do' attitude! |
Milly Hayward
replied to Kitty Cat Lady
6 years ago, updated 6 years ago
Thanks Kitty. I do think it would have a good chance of working. I don't have the strength, energy or health to this now but I would love to think that I could be in at the inception of the project at least in an advisory capacity and see it come to fruition. It really needs a charity foundation setting up with celebrity support and an honest management team with strong motivation and negotiation skills. |
Em
6 years ago
Is there a piece of music or a song that takes you back to something 'special' and every time? Say the first song you danced too or had your first kiss to just as a way of understanding so to speak |
Milly Hayward
replied to Em
6 years ago, updated 6 years ago
Em, When I was young I was troubled and shy and going through a lot. The first ever record (single) I bought was called World of water by New Musik and I played it to death over and over again all day long in my bedroom and when I left home and though out my life its the song I play when going through bad times to cheer myself up. It is a song that has a really upbeat beat and it is a metaphor for no matter how bad things get - you can drown but you still survive. (You can drown but you still survive. No colour, no feeling, no living, no dying, no one here to be found, no entry, no exit. I like to be beside the sea. The tide comes in once more but I'm safe on higher ground. The water is still rising, it's come to drag me down. You drown but you still survive) It always raises my spirits and gives me the confidence to fight on. |
CRAFTY KEN
replied to silvershoes
6 years ago
Hey Milly, my question is along the lines of Ben's. Say I'm God Almighty, and I will grant you one Prayer for whatever you ask, what would be your Prayer request? |
Milly Hayward
replied to CRAFTY KEN
6 years ago, updated 6 years ago
Thank you Ken for your question really appreciate it. |
silvershoes
replied to Milly Hayward
6 years ago
Love how many pets you've had, Milly. I have often been blown away by the intelligence of certain dogs, cats, and horses, so I am not surprised at all to hear how smart Roxy is -- I took care of a Pomeranian once and she was super naughty, hehe. I'm glad you have such a great companionship with Roxy. What a silly girl. |
Milly Hayward
replied to silvershoes
6 years ago, updated 6 years ago
Hi Jane, Thank you for your questions and yes I am passionately against anything that causes me any more pain than I currently have. |
Kitty Cat Lady
6 years ago
Hi Milly :-) |
Em
replied to Milly Hayward
6 years ago
Great answers Milly. |
Milly Hayward
replied to silvershoes
6 years ago
Hi Jane, Onto question 4a. Why do you think free verse poetry has become so popular among modern Poets. I think it has opened up an avenue for creativity that doesn't include as many rigid rules as formed poetry and so allows a more fluid creativity. However it still takes creative and literary skills to be able to create free flow poetry. There have been some wonderful free flow poetry written but sadly more rather than less modern poets don't understand fully the concept of poetry writing and instead lazily present monotone thoughts that have no poetic feel about them at all. |
Milly Hayward
replied to silvershoes
6 years ago, updated 6 years ago
Jane - Question 6 Has a poem ever made you cry? Would you care to share it here? |