first love?

first time posting a topic any way when was the fist time you felllllllll in love!!!!!!!!!
with some one so deeply

My first love I met at summer camp I wrote a poem about him. I was 13 and still to this day I still love him and he has been my only true love. We spent many years together on and off so we basically grew up together. U never forget ur first love!

Well...I do not personally believe in the whole concept of love. (it's perfectly fine if you do, it seems like a nice thing-just my opinion)
but I don't think you could fall in love at 13. Girls who are in highschool don't even know what they're talking about when they say it, and to be 13 and think that way, well I just don't think someone would have enough life-experience to know the difference of haveing feelings for someone and falling in love with someone.

I am now 34 so I do know the meaning of love. At 13 it started as a crush and grew from there over the years. It went on way past high school.I agree at 13 u have know clue what love is it comes with time. I believe in love but still wonder why all it does is cause u pain.

Yea, alright I was going to add to my post "perhaps it started as a minor thing then progressed over time" So, it's believeable.
Yea, I have my own theory's for why i think it doesn't exist, but I'm too tired to write them in, so perhaps I'll start a discussion on that later.
(if you do believe in it that's great, I'm not saying you shouldn't)

laters

Met my first love just over a year ago and we have now split up however we do have little "get togethers" now and again, so it really feels like we are still together!!!

I met my first love at church right before my freshman year of highschool. We went out for like 3 months and then I broke up with her because of family problems. That was over 2 years ago and now were going back out and were on our 3rd month again. lol. I hate the 3rd month. She was my first and my last love and all the loves between.

I have to agree with Donald on that stupid, dumb, goofy, great feeling.... I fell in love for the first time at 13 in high school and here I am now at 45 and back in love with the same wonderful guy and those same stupid, dumb, goofy, great feelings and the smiling never ends and the heart goes pitter pat!!!!!!!!

wow first time posting a topic and i recieved alot of posts thanks alot by the way i dont think you need a certain age for love the same goofy feelings always come

explanation of "goofy" feeling:

This could be because you were all at premature ages and had not experienced this feeling often. So, when you did experience it, and it was not a consistant thing, than it came at you with a more powerful-than-actual feeling and you thought about it frequently and eventually, or impulsivley, told yourselves that it was infact, love.
As the years progressed you actually did fall in love with the person, but since you had remembered yourself "falling in love" with them at the age of 13 and found no proof of it otherwise you don't see any reason to not think so, so continue to think it was indeed love at that age.

Just my thoughts*

I was 17 and he was 22. I was going to marry him but he was really abusive and i'm glad I got out when I did. But he was my first real love.

hurtingsoul, you are right, you don't need to be a certain age, it happens when it happens.

donald, I have to agree, when the feelings stop then I may as well die too.

I love being in love, its the greatest feeling in the world.

As the saying goes: Love Conquers All

Well...Donald....no I'm not a "freaking robot" as you have stated,I've had crushes and had the "goofy" feeling but that is hardly qualified to be called 'love'
but I can tell by your comment that you are obviosly one of those love-sick people who go throughout their lives telling themselves they have fallen in love or accepting the idea so eagerly. You sound like an impulsive emotion interpretation of yourself, therefor I don't think I can explain everything that was so wrong with what you just said, so I'm not going to try.

My first love was my childhood friend who I have known for 8 years... Well we don't talk any more, but I had been in love with him for ages, sadly enough though I suppose he was merely a horny teenage boy and I couldn't let things be like that with my friend who I had known forever. He did teach me a lot about life and love though, I just wish that we could have stayed friends.

has anyone heard first love by sight?

cause i heard the other day or actually witnessed it

cause i(oooops!)

hey i think your the most to right i like the i dea how you said that we know whats love but were are not in love until we find that person

the person that you think every night of kiss them makeout with them and who knows what else?
but you just end falling for them
no age needed

the first time i fell in love me and the guy met because he sat by me in a class and then he started talkin to me more and we were attracted to eachother so he sat with me at lunch and then he wrote me a note asking me out and in our p.e. class he said hi to me and i said yes and smiled and then walked away. ever since then we spent as much time as we could together and i went to his house and he came to see me at my friends house. now he has a new gf becauase hw switched schools and i see him at the club that we go to all the time but i walk right past him and he doesnt say a thing to me. it hurts, but im not sorry that im not with him anymore.

joanna(if i spelled it right)sorry for the bf love it wonderful and then it hurts like hell

My first love.. she hated me because I kicked her ass in a pokemon card battle game. Bear in mind this was ages ago >_>;;

My first true love left me a late November night, and I was as broken as one can be, but this week she came to my place and kissed me, and so we are back together. What do you mean by saying you don't believe in love?

how do you know when your in love?

cause sometimes you feel goofy feelings when its a crush

so how do you know your in love?

I cannot help believing that if you are in love, you will know.

Im still with the man I first fell in love with...
We met quite a few years ago and it was really love at first sight so to speak - we met and have never really let each other go since...I can't imagine life without him, the beautiful sons he's given me and wonders he's opened my eyes to. He truly makes me a better person I have no regrets and no fears with him. I hope everyone finds their special someone and has a chance to experience love - its the closest thing to happiness :o)

I fell in love when i was 14, i had a crush when i was 13 and by the time i was 14 he was my everything, sadly as they say everything has to end and it kinda makes you wanna believe love doesn't exist...........

didn't really know what love was or about until I had my son and then my daughter. Realised that no man woman or animal could come close after that. One guy, Simon, did. Fell in love so deeply but we are no longer unfortunately. Still think about him all the time but sadly is not meant to be. Have moved on and there is a lot to be said about being your partners best friend. Sometimes love can be too painful for people xx

just wondering whats the difference between a crush and love???????????

difficult one because a crush can sometimes feel like love and vice versa. Me definitions are:

a crush - that tingle when the certain someone walks into the room, that flush that you get from seeing him/her for the first time that day, imagining your lives together in front of the tv, (slow motion music sequence) running along the beach holding hands etc.

love - seeing the person vomit after a night out on the tiles and instead of running away screaming you go in an stroke their back, missing them when the are gone for just a second but not having to tell the other person as they feel it too, feeling their pain, happiness, euphoria and sharing in ever feeling they have inside their heart (but still goes back to the throw up thing if you ask me).

Big difference though between loving someone and being 'in love'. I have loved a lot of people in my time but been in love with only one. The difference being between the two is I can love my family, my friends, my colleagues but for the man I am (still) in love with I would do anything, lay down my life, go anywhere, agree with him if he were wrong, support him through whatever he may come across and forever be lonely without him in my heart!

Phew that was a bit long winded but I got there in the end.

Rach
xx

Damn girl it was:)
yip that's pretty much how i feel bout love and crushes i couldn't have said it better myself. When it's love you'll know and personally i find crushes have got to do more with lust then anything else.......

so are you saying that jealousy can be a sign that you love him or her????????/

right

Have to say that jealousy in my opinion isn't something associated with love, it's more a personality trait honey. If you love someone then it should come hand in hand with trust xx

ohhhh i get it now

dont doubt it

dont doubt it

thats really sad