my mom wont let me have friends or boyfriends!

My mom recently flipped out on me! She was mad at me because i mentioned my concerns to my sister about her liking a guy 7 years older than her. i wasn't saying it was wrong, i was just saying i think she should start out with someone on her level (she hasn't had a bf befor or kissed) and she shouldn't hold back because she likes him because she is missing out. But my mom disagree's and says its great she likes him, he's a good man. But ever since she heard of me talking to my sister about my disagreements, she said she doesn't want me hangin out with one of my friends and my bf! (they're brother and sister) but her excuse when i asked why was "i don't want you hangin out with thugs and talkin like a 'G'" that made me so mad! She doesn't know them and said she doesn't want to get to know them. I guess she is going by looks, thats all she knows of them but how do i get to see them? I tried to talk to her but she just yells and i am scared of getting her too mad! I have had my bigger sister talk to my mom and my dad but she, i dunno, she's crazy! She also said that i am trying to 'stoop' my sister down to my level! There is so much that goes into this but i want to see my friends! Its wrong that i had to break off our relationship because my mom doesn't like them when she doesn't even know them! They really are good people!

If i were you I would sit down wit my mom and talk calm to prove to her I'm grown enough to pick who I like and want to hang wit. just try it it works alot wit me.

i no exactly how u feel me mum's done that but it has made me realise that since i have been friends with my mates i have been behaving different and wen i told them what my parents thought i saw the real them, they never wanted to see me, and they bitched about my parents, but when it comes down to it my parents are looking out for me and they wudnt do something unless they thought it was for the best and now i realised these wernt real friends only my parents noticed before i did, now i got one year left at school with no mates all my mates are out of school, and the ones inside are constantly bitching about my parents, if they were any sort of mates they would try to find out what there doing wrong but they proved me right that they are not worthy of my friendship

i think what bothered ur mom was that she thought ur frnd and boyfriend had a negative influence on you....or were turning u against ur family or something...like the last comment said....try talking to ur frnd and bf about this...see how they react...tell them you dont know what to do....but dont make it sound like ur breaking off the friendship or the relationship
dont worry...things will work out