Should I hit on her?

  • Michael W Gutierrez
    19 years ago

    There's a girl that I like named kelly. She's the girl I wrote about in my last topic about her long distance relationship. I like her alot, and I think she likes me, and she tells me her long distance relationship isn't going well. So should I like hit on her? Or should I just wait until her and her b/f are completely done? PLZ HELP!!

  • Bret Higgins
    19 years ago

    Strike while the iron is hot. The only way to find out is ask.

    Sure, I wouldn't ask if I knew she was in a relationship, but that doesn't stop you telling her how you feel.

    In fact saying that you respect her relationship and telling her you are gentleman and can wait will work for you in a VERY positive way.

  • Kaitlin Kristina
    19 years ago

    Hit on her. Let her make an informed decision. She deserves to know the possibilities and you deserve to have a chance.

  • Michael W Gutierrez
    19 years ago

    Well I didn't mean "hit on her" like we were at a bar, I meant like you know, damnit this is hard to explain. I meant like talk to her, and tell her my feelings, and ask if she has the same feelings.... ya know.

  • Michael W Gutierrez
    19 years ago

    One last question, should I tell her in person, or in a letter. I'm afraid I'll be to nervous for everything to come out the way I want it to, but I think in person would mean more... HELP!! AHHH!!

  • rayn
    19 years ago

    i think you should wait until its offically broken off between this long distance guy, because then she might be torn in 2 if she, in fact, likes you. but hey if ur gonna do it go for it. i think in person would be both good and bad, depending on her reaction, but if i were her.. i would love a letter, its romantic.

  • Bret Higgins
    19 years ago

    Always in person. It is good for confidence, it shows your determination, it shows you are willing to look like and idiot and overcome and fear of shyness.