i cheated on him with his best friend.

Bad, bad, bad. Look up bad in the dictionary and you'll see your own picture, Jessica.

Girl, own up, face the consequences and don't use blackmail. It makes people downright ugly on the inside.

You made the bed, lied in it and you're just lying. Act your age, come clean and fess up. No one likes or respects liars.

Honesty pays, thats's why.

You'll be holding Cody hostage over his mate until he finds out anyway. There is more than just your pride to consider here.

Rule one, no trust without honesty.

If you want to be with Cody and have something that lasts more than a few weeks before one of you grows tired and winds up on someone elses's couch doing stuff, ending up in bed before they realise what has happened then you have to be honest.

it may suck telling your current b/f about what happened with Cody, but he can have no argument if he has already cheated on you. The sooner you get this sorted, the sooner everything gets sorted out.

Secrets have a habit of slipping out at the worse possible time.

Hmm...So what if your uhh..BF didn't tell...that don't mean you should follow what hes doing....If you do something like that....You should tell the truth about it at least(hopefullly I made sense to you)well..good luck anyways...

Tell him, he should really know about the people he considers friends plus it'll get it off your chest too.