What is the deal eh?

It seems like I always see girls saying how you want a nice guy who treats you ggod, and loves you for you. Well I'm one of the nice guys and I've treated every girl I've been with as good as possible, and what happens to me? My true love leaves me for a complete asshole. He's already smacked her around a couple times, and yet, she wants to be with him more than anything? What is the F-ing deal ese?

well. u cant just say all girls are like one person. some girls want somebody whos nice and treats them good and then theres other girls who want a guy whos hot and has money. but honestly, a lot of girls in that second category (how do u spell that...) say that they want a nice guy. but its a bunch of bullcrap. but theres some girls who really just want a guy whos sweet and who has a nice personality. and a good sense of humor. so u just have to keep looking. it'll happen eventually.

Alot of girls actually do want a nice guy because they want to be loved and cherished, as they should be. however, after they get the attention of this nice guy, they seem to get the feeling that they could do anything and this nice guy would not leave them, and somehow get the idea that that means the guy isn't worth keeping
(they don't know what they've got)
When a guy hits a girl, and she stays with him, it's because she loves him. (or at least thinks so)
When such a horrible guy treats this type of girl in a nice manner or does something romantic, it makes it incredibly meaningful and romantic, thus causing the girl to only remember these qualities about him (because thats all she wants to remember)
She stays with the guy and is convinced that him hitting her is not wrong because she needs to please him. So when he does hurt her, she thinks it's something she did, and stays so that she can fix the problem (herself) and hope and wait for him to do something sweet again. This repeats in a cycle.
Note: this does not apply to all girls, just possibly the majority

pinkalias=genius

*thanks*
(This subject is important to me so I tend to get really thorough if someone asks such a question)
personal note:
From your message ~The game~, you seem like a fantastic guy, and I hope you are truly the type of man whom you described in your message. If so, never change. no matter what you may think, it's so incredibly hopeful to see that some guys like you exist.
(you will find a smart girl at some point who knows what she's got, and I hope you treat her as you say you have previosuly to other girls)

Girls subconsciously want a bad boy. Jerks who treat them decently, but not like princess' are who they really want, because they cannot have them. They always want more from them, to be treated better, to get more of their attention, to feel protected and worthy. Guys make mistakes by being too nice, especially in the casual dating scene. Girls will get your attention, your money (say you buy her dinner or a drink), and your respect, and then she will be off to conquer someone else. Girls only want someone wrapped around their finger so long and so tight as to go find another. Jerks, well, girls want to prove themselves, and they want to be dominated, subconsciously.

THIS IS MY OPINION, a lot of girls will freak out about this post.

But anyway, when a man hits a woman, subservient mode kicks in, and she sticks around because it is in our natures to forgive, love, and nurture. A strong man, testosterone ridden, is capable of protecting her and himself. If a guy lets a girl walk all over him, he is not proving his masculinity to her, and if a woman didnt want a MALE she would be a dike.

The more commited and understanding (as well as mutually respectful) the relationship is, the less this is apparent, but the man still needs to not allow her to walk on him. Most girls will leave in that case.

That is my view on it, anyway.