I Feel Weird Having A Boyfriend...

I really havent had a real boyfriend in my life before. And I just got asked out today by someone I do like, but now I don't act the same around him. I'm like all shy and I try to avoid him. I don't want our relationship to head in the wrong direction but I don't know what to do. I don't know how to feel comfortable. And he told me he loved me on the first day. But I didn't say it back...My friends tell me to break up with him if I'm not ready for a relationship, but this is what I've been wanting for such a long time. I havent had anyone that I could love in a year now. Should I end it and say I need time? Or what? Please help. I feel embarrased about this lol.

I would tell him that...you don't tink you're ready for a relationship yet and you just need some more time before you will be.....That's just what I would do....lol and don't feel embarrassed this prolly happens to a lot of ppl

good luck

You have to stand up for yourself. If you get shy and act differently then the relationship is heading down a bad road anyway.

He is a bit full on to be saying he loves you on the first day, he obviously doesn't mean it and is probably trying to tell you what he thinks you want to hear.

We strive our whole lives aspiring to be something or have something, but it is better to wait until we know we can handle what we want before gripping it by the horns.

Make sure this is what you want before you go any further. If it is, be strong, confident and be natural. If you can't decide then the choice is made for you, break it off.

That's true.

And people say that he really likes me. But he also avoids me too. He doesn't act like a boyfriend. We havent even talked at all today either. I think we're both shy...but I'm scared to end it. Cause of what I heard, that he really really likes me. And he told the whole school today about us and people said he actually looked happy. I don't want to hurt his feelings. :(

If you are both shy and don't really know what you're doing then perhaps you should give it a bit more time.

Not talking for a day is not a bad thing. Personal space is always good.

This is your first go at it, probably his too. Maybe should overlook some aspects and take things one step at a time.

the other thing is...I know you may think that I'm too young for love and everything..but I love someone else. I can't stop thinking about him and just let him go, even though I know he wants me to. I'm just not ready to be with someone else. I love the guy, but we havent gone out. So it's just weird right now...I don't know how I'll forget him. I can't stop loving him. Will this get in the way of my future relationships? Wow, I'm so pathetic...

Best of luck :o)