y isnt he romantic anymore?

ok me and my boyfriend hav been together a year and when we first got together he was really sweet n soppy n romantic n sensitive, everything i wanted in a boyfriend after how id been treated before.... y isnt he these things anymore? he usd 2 write me leters and all sorts y not anymore, does he not like me as much....has the novelty worn off? somebody plz explain 2 me what this means? luv H xxx

oo i soo know how you feel.Doesnt mean he loves you or likes you less.My husband was teh same way in the beginning it was letters evry day cards flowers little things but aftre he won my heart totally those thinsg slowly declined.He doenst do any of those thinsg anymore unless its a specail occasion and weve been together almost 4 yrs.its not that ur relationship or you arent as importnat its jst that hes more comfatable and secure in your feelings that the urge to do litle things to impress you isnt that urgent.If it bugs you a whole lot jst mention it to him .. ask him "why dont u do the little things anymore?" or tell him you miss little surprises to see if he gets a hint.Overall i wouldnt make a big deal out of it as long as he shows you love and treats you good teh decline in notes and little jst dating things is not a bad sign only shows hes gotten comfatable. Good luck.

What are you doing for him? Are you writing letters and being sweet and soppy? Are you just expecting things with nothing in return?

Shake it up, mix things round and try new things if you thnk things are getting stale.

Most importantly talk to him about it. If you just expect things without talking about it how is he supposed to know what you want?

Another point, MEN DO NOT GET HINTS. Be open and honest or you'll spend your entire life dropping unanswered hints.

The best thing to do is talk to him about it. From what I've read, once men have got their girl they stop making an effort (much to our dismay!) You have to talk to him about it otherwise he'll never know its upsetting you! xxx

The relationship isnt new anymore, things get stagnant after a while. You have to remind him that he needs to be sweet and romantic by doing those things for him too, he will get the message and he will want to repay the favor.

You know whats irritating about girls? They think that their man needs to do all the romantic stuff and always make them feel loved and appreciated, but what about them? I always make my boyfriend feel loved and apprecaited, I do just as many sweet things to let him know I care as he does for me.

He may not be taking you for granted as much as settling "in" to the relationship, it always happens, just give it a kick start by doing something sweet for him, he will return the favor.

but i do try do things for him too but i just feel like im wasting my time..like when theres footy on im vertially non exhistant, i even went 2 a game with him and his m8s! i always thort he was differnet from this but it seems hes just one ov da lads so wher do i come into the equation?

Yeah, the romance and stuff just goes away eventually... I've been with my boyfriend for a little over 3 years and there is little to no romance in our relationship. I do not mind though, I still love him! Lol.. but maybe you're boyfriend would start it up again if you just tell him you miss it.

its not that i cant live without it, i admit i do miss it because it made me feel special and now at the back of my mind all i can think of is that it must be because he doesnt feel the same as he usd 2

Relationship is based on communication. Talk to him.

he already proved to u that ur special!!

maybeu can tell him u miss those things he used to do...am sure he still feels the same....
..and the he still can be romantic as u said but on special occasions...