What is my problem?

  • Jackie Bilson
    19 years ago

    Lately, I've been really mean to people. Like, laughing at them and talking about them. And I'm not usually like that so, I feel really reallly horrible. What's wrong with me?

    BTW, no, it's not that time of the month...

  • Kaitlin Kristina
    19 years ago

    lol, good to add that its not that time, otherwise I would suggest some midol and some chocolate and you would be set ;)

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    Its probably a phaze, and you'll get over it. I wouldnt worry too much, everyone does it at some point. Enjoy yourself, but what goes around comes around.

  • Shædow Poet
    19 years ago

    I have the exact same problem. And I have just realised it lately. What I do is just try to put myself in their position and contain the need to bitch or laugh. It's not nice, but I am hoping to get out of the phaze too.

  • Sarah-Louise
    19 years ago

    I get the same too! Lately it's been real bad...I've been bitching about a really really really close friend of mine...thinking that the person who I'm bitching to will like me more because of it! How dumb am I?! But...I'm aiming to keep my mouth shut from now on...'cause I would hate for it to happen to me! take care all xxx

  • Jackie Bilson
    19 years ago

    yeah maybe it is the spotlight thing... I mean, I admit that I do like the attention but, it can't be that because, I'm not being mean to someone who's getting a lot of attention at the moment, I'm being mean to the person who's irritating me with dumbass questions... ok, breathe.... and sometimes even people who haven't done anything...

    It could be cause I've had a few projects due in this week and I haven't able to sleep much... what do you think?

  • Kaitlin Kristina
    19 years ago

    Its a phaze, if it's really NOT your personality, you will get over it.

    As for the spotlight thing, I know that when I was with a bunch of people, kids my age, I had a tendency to play bitchy or put other people down to make people laugh. I think a lot of people do that; not that its nice.